They don’t. But the point is they don’t think the Dems are their friend either. They have no friends, not that would make any difference in terms of policy. On what is currently their most important political question, they see no meaningful difference between the parties. This is what outside commentators fail to grasp: we recognize that Trump would almost certainly be even more bloodthirsty, even more “let go of the leash,” but the people we’re talking about already don’t see much of a leash being applied.
My wife is Persian, and this is a very common view expressed among her friends and family when this question is brought up. I don’t bother to argue it with them, because I’m not from there and I don’t have any historical skin in the game. They feel this way, fully and deeply. They see no difference between the Dems and the GOP on this and they see no point in picking one or the other. Either way, Israel gets free rein to do whatever it wants.
Trying to debate whether they’re right or wrong for feeling this way, from an outsider perspective, is a waste of time and energy, because they’re not listening and their minds won’t be changed. Arguing that their view is ignorant, misplaced, self-destructive, whatever, is entirely irrelevant, because they feel how they feel. And moreover, in the context of this thread, within the boundaries of the debate as framed, it’s entirely immaterial. They believe what they believe.
The only question is whether there are enough of them to matter in the election, and, as stated by others before me, that’s entirely unknown. It’s possible some who hold this belief will treat it as a red line, and not vote (or, occasionally, cast a burn-it-all-down vote for Trump). It’s also possible some will have a moment of rational reflection and decide that while on this specific point there’s no meaningful difference there are other balancing factors on other issues that sufficiently justify a Harris vote. Both scenarios are plausible, and indeed many individuals will fall on both sides of that line. We just can’t know the proportion of how it will break down, and whether the election will be impacted.
But any argument that these people are “wrong” to feel this way is an absolute waste of time.