I have never gotten that feeling at all. Having served in the military is pretty common in the U.S. across all kinds of socio-economic and racial lines. There are plenty of female vets these days as well. I never “served” in the military but I was in officer training in college before I dropped out simply because I didn’t want to commit to anything at that point in my life. Almost everyone in the U.S. knows someone who is/was in the military. It doesn’t tend to raise an eyebrow because there are so many.
I’ve also never had the impression that the military is over-represented on the SDMB. If anything, I’d have thought it was under-represented.
Nor can I count myself, unfortunately (except in the vaguest, fourth-class kind of sense that I grew up on Army bases and graduated from a Department of Defense high school).
I thnk vets are about as prevalent here as they are in real life. We seem to talk about it a bit more here than in real life, and as a result vets are more obvious.
When I was in the USAF in the 80s, the DOD totalled about 2 million people in uniform out of a population of about 250 million. In other words, at that moment, about 1% of the total population was on active duty.
I was in eight years, and can expect to live about 80 years. So if everything stayed the same for decades and the 1980s were were typical, you’d expect something like 10% of the total population to be either in the service or be a vet. That’s a real crude thumbnail guess, but based on that I’d be pretty confident the actual percentage of vets in the US population is between 5 & 15%. Or somewhere between 1 in 20 and one in 7.
US Marine Corps 83-87 4th battalion 2nd Marine Division in Camp Lejeune NC. I was an E-4 (corporal).
As shagnasty said I don’t think there is a larger amount of military people on this message board compared to others.
Many civilians think that people in the military are nothing more than mindless robots. So when ex military people show up on a message board like this and show some ability to type complete sentences, they are surprised.
Not to say that there aren’t plenty of idiots in the military.