Your own medicine tastes a bit bitter, don’t it?
Apologies to Shel Silverstein:
I’d rather play tennis than go to the dentist.
I’d rather play soccer than go to the doctor.
I’d rather play whore than go to war.
Whore? Whore? What’s whore?
I don’t know, but it must be better than war.
I admit I’m not perfect. I included myself in that “we”.
Tell me you don’t see it?
Take your bitter pill and stick it somewhere, else.
I don’t swallow your crap anymore.
Then you can’t take the high road by calling people out for using insults, when you insult people.
I do think that some insults are childish, especially the people who insist on their cutesy, painfully-bad Trump insult nicknames every single time. But everyone uses insults at some point, everyone.
Using insults and bad language is like farting. Everyone does it, it’s natural. What matters is the time and place you do it. You shouldn’t let rip a loud stinky one when you’re standing in front of a boardroom for your presentation, you shouldn’t stick your butt up in the air and fart loudly during church services, but you’re going to have to do it sometime and someplace. Just as using insults and bad language in polite company is a bad thing.
(Just for your information, SDMB is not polite company and doesn’t pretend to be.)
And yes, it really is naive to think that people don’t use insults, and it’s very hypocritical to insult people for insulting people, and call them names for calling people names.
People don’t like your fake, performative pearl-clutching. And calling people out for using nasty speech in the BBQ Pit is no different from going into a public restroom and yelling at people for being rude and farting where others can hear and smell it. You end up looking like the unhinged and shameful one.
You have a suggestion where, I’m sure.
Now that is a sentiment I can get behind. It doesn’t matter whether you use all the most PC language if you’re deliberately trying to hurt someone.
I didnt see it til you said that!
Oh, the old “its just how men talk in locker rooms” defense.
Didn’t work when Melania said it about Donald. Doesn’t work here.
If that’s pearl clutching, so be it.
You can “pit” with out resorting to calling people filthy, and UNTRUTHFUL names. 'Cause it makes you sound oh, so tough. Yeah. Go you!
While language policing is practiced on both sides of the pond, it’s my impression that Americans have more enthusiasm for it.
That said, I’ve always leaned against female gendered insults due to their typical unfairness and unbalanced application. I’ve had no compunction about referring to certain male behavior as dickish or assholish. I’ve occasionally flung those terms in a female direction, awkwardness notwithstanding.
Well, you know if a British person tells someone “steady on”, they’re really worked up. They just say it quietly.
Bullshit. Now you’re loathsomely trying to impugn misogyny on me because I’m okay with people saying “shit” on a message board. You really should be ashamed of yourself (but I know you won’t be, because you think you’re above everyone else).
You are a bad person. That’s not an insult, it’s an observation.
Just an FYI, from this point on, anytime someone defends you, I will point out that you tried to call me a misogynist and the same as Trump because I thought that it was okay for people to use bad words. Not misogyny (which I am very strongly against), just words that might get you in trouble in preschool. That’s really all anyone needs to know about you.
I used to refer to men I thought were wimps as pussies then realized that was insulting to women.
Point #2.
You can do what ever you think makes you feel better than me.
That’s your problem, not mine.
I’m all good.
Also, “Bad, bad, bad” was my own. You can’t appropriate it. Sorry.
Thats just sad now.
And again, the Beck ShowTM tries to make everything about her.
Wasn’t this supposed to be a thread about misogynistic language? How is using any swear word considered to be no different than slurs against women?
I don’t think this is the case anymore, at least without further knowledge of that person’s lifestyle. Single men include non-voluntary single incels, weirdos, losers, anti-socials and a lot of other types who have very few admirers. Yes, sure, rich famous playboys are still “admired” I guess, but I think rich, famous, single women are also as well. That is, the fact that they are single is irrelevant, or only tangential, to the fact they are admired.
Thanks for the trade mark.
You can not follow me so closely.
That’s pitiful.
Simple fix.
Leave me alone. Easy peasy.
You can say “shit” all you want. I don’t care a bit.
I don’t need to. You’ll insert yourself into everything as you always do. I sure didn’t follow you here for your hijack.
If only.
Is narcissist misogynistic? No,? good.
Back to misogyny; sometimes it can be quite subtle. Young lady seems a bit odd to call a senior woman.
No, they’re now “crazy cat ladies”. The language has changed, but the shaming of women who don’t take on the role of kitchen servant continues unabated.
And incels have a champion running the country, so they aren’t getting the stigma they should.
(Not saying Trump is an incel, but he really cozied up to them in his last campaign.)