Wandering through the nooks and crannies of my brain as I’m wont to do on occasion, I find a nubbin that’s been plinging me for a bit. Nothing major, just something that festers and gnaws when I’m not looking, then stares at the ceiling and whistles innocently when I turn my gaze sharply upon it.
I’m officially an ex-yuppie.
This, in and of itself, is not the problem. Nay, I say. The problem lies in the fact that almost all of my friends are still yuppies. I am now that person that can only pay for dinner at places that I wouldn’t be seen in. I just sat down and figured out the average income of my friends, and it’s around US$150,000.
Mine? $0. No matter what currency you figure it in. Nada. Zilch. Sound and fury.
There are a couple of men I dated in the past year that I think would not have moved a relationship forward with the likes of me. It’s too embarrassing. I mean, sure, I clean up well, can have a conversation without saying, “like” or “you know,” and know my chardonnay from my beaujolais, but can you imagine?
Stockbroker #1: Hail, fellow yuppie. Have you tried the brie yet? And who is your lovely escort for the evening?
NymDate: Oh, that’s Nym. She’s a psychologist. Well, she quit that, really. She’s an actress. Well, actually she’s not acting right now. She’s bartending. Well, see, to be honest, she’s not even bartending right now. She sorta got fired. She…umm…she reads a lot.
Nym: <trying to stick her chest out further so everyone doesn’t think she’s a complete waste of space>
Stockbroker #2: Has anyone seen Mitzi? I think she needs her IRA massaged.
Hell, I know I’m a good person. I know that people like me. But when you have nothing to do with your time, it messes with your sense of social reality. I’m just getting ready to go out on a Tuesday when my friends are tucking themselves into bed, preparing for another 14 hour day at Microsoft. How long before they tire of my need to stay out until 500a? How long before they realize that my carrying eight dollars around at all times is not eccentricity, but the last of my money in the world? I ask you, what will it take for them to understand that “I cannot pay the rent this month” is not a euphemism for my 401K rolling over?
<sigh>
Anyone else left the work force recently and noticed a change in attitudes? Or, conversely, I’d love to hear the other side. Which of you yuppies has a friend like me? I know if you’re friends money doesn’t matter and blah, blah, yackity-schmackity, but doesn’t it bother you a wee bit? Deep down in the reptilian brain?