Our son is getting married in November, and he wants to know what song his mother wants for the mother/son dance.
She is thinking she wants something with a kind of Motown feel and probably faster (I have no idea if the boy can dance), but is coming up dry on particular songs.
I have no idea what the sentiment is meant to be for a mother/son dance but I still think the greatest wedding dance number is Stand By Me. There are even a few dance steps in this version.
Around here, that’s thankfully not a popular choice. I’ve been to over 350 weddings, and I can’t remember ever hearing it (and maybe 10% of those weddings were Jewish.) “A Song For Mama” by Boyz II Men, seems to be the one I hear most often – often enough that I never want to hear it again.
Typical choices I hear are stuff like “Stand By Me,” “Into the Mystic,” “Have I Told You Lately That I Love You,” “I’ll Stand By You” (Pretenders), “In My Life,” “I"ll Be There” (Jackson 5), “Unforgettable,” etc.
Or else pick another Motown song with the genders switched, “My Guy” by Mary Wells. It’s a bit more uptempo than “My Girl”. I could dance better to it, but that’s because I’m not good at slow dances.
When I first saw the album cover in the preview, I thought you were gonna suggest “Every Breath You Take”. But this is even worse . How do you dance to such a song?
Thank you! That was the one I was to pull out of my brain but just couldn’t pull it off.
The movie Sister Act made that song a major hit all over again.