Does anyone have any links to any such case happening?
I hope not. It’s one of the most unspeakably cruel things to do I could conceive of.
My father died of cancer two years ago. I chose to use a local hospice service rather than let him die - possibly alone - in a hospital. The hospice service provided many pamphlets about death and coping. One pamphlet I remember was entitled Letting Go. It claimed that patients often made unusual communications, non sequiturs, or hurtful comments when the end was near. The explanation given was that the dying person was “testing the waters” to see if you were ready to let go. My father made a few hurtful comments near the end, but never tried to make me hate him.
A search of hospice services revealed many sites that briefly touch on this topic, but I couldn’t find an online copy of the pamphlet. You can contact a hospice nurse in your area for more information.