astro:
“On a whim I looked it up “fey” means otherworldly not prancing foppish behavior.
The word “fay” mean’s of the fairy, or like the fairy. Not “gay” fairy but supernatural fairy.”
fey:
a. Overrefined, exaggerated, or affected: “She said the word in a deliberately fey and pretentious manner, striking a pose” (Jenefer Shute).
b. Effeminate: “a fey snap of the wrist” (Michael Eric Dyson).
In the OED, fay is a noun meaning faith, a fairy, ofay, or soil, and a verb meaning to fit or to cleanse. (p 938). Fey is an adjective meaning fated to die (formerly accursed, week, feeble) or disordered in mind, behaving strangely, or displaying supernatural powers, or leading to or portending death (p 953).