My buddy disappointed me, should I tell him?

Ah, the Air Buffalo Club.

Hazard County Coon Club?

Just as long as he doesn’t divulge the secret handshake…

You seem to be stuck in a box.

Your buddy disappointed you.
You told his as much, and he blew it off.
Your not willing to enforce your own club’s rules, because your buddy will get kicked out.
So you’re complicit with your buddy’s lack of respect for the clubs rules.

So you’re stuck in the box.

If you want out, you’ve got to either agree with your buddy and not care, or side with your club and say adios amigo.

Ack ack a dack – dack dack a ack!

I kept waiting to see the lighthearted fun part, but all I’m seeing is one dude who’s willing to break his promise, and another dude who’s totally worried about having a promise broken that doesn’t affect him at all, and nothing looks lighthearted or fun.

Seriously: if you want this club to be something lighthearted and fun in your life, I think you’re approaching it the wrong way.

The OP is obligated to allow the Rosicrucian Grand Master to handle this matter.

The Magician’s Castle membership is another level of membership bringing in the personal and professional. The association we belong to relies heavily on the personal and we are brought together as a consumer of a product from this association. I can clearly see where violating the Magician’s Castle code is whole different issue.

The Association by its very nature is lighthearted and fun, say on a 1 - 10 scale where the Magician’s Castle is a 10, the Association is a 3. So do I care if anyone else did what he did, yes, would I care if they got their membership revoked, no. Speaking my mind to him about lending his card was all that mattered to me.

Is this ya’lls club: http://www.buffalotracesaloon.com/bourbonbabes