I’ve told this one here before, but it’s possibly worth repeating:
As a teen, I often went over to the local shooting range to use their archery course. It’s a big range, the archery course and trap shooting area are close to the gate and the pistol/rifle ranges are about a half a mile further down a dirt road and through some woods. I was usually the only person on the archery range, and often there was no-one trap shooting either, so I was pretty well alone.
One day as I’m packing up, another car pulls in. It comes to a quick stop about twenty yards away when the driver sees me, and the driver jumps out and starts walking briskly towards me. He asked “What day is it?” Me: “It’s Wednesday.” He immediately asks again, still getting closer: “What day is it?”
Despite them being out of sight, there’s enough noise from the other ranges that maybe he didn’t hear me the first time. “It’s Wednesday.” “What day is it?” I have a sudden mental image of my family’s cat stalking a bird. This guy is approaching way too directly and way too quickly for a casual question. I start considering what to do if he tries to attack me, and my first thought is some Jackie Chan-esque vision of slamming him with a car door.
Car door. Oh yeah. The dirt road into the shooting range was steep and really badly maintained, so I’d driven my parent’s gigantic Chevy Suburban that day. I’m standing next to a freaking urban assault vehicle, with all my gear loaded and the keys in my hand. I swing the driver’s door open and step halfway inside.
The guy instantly stops. Like a cat, freezing when it’s been spotted. “It’s Wednesday.” “Oh.” He turned around and went back to his car. I climbed all the way into the driver’s seat, locked the door, and drove out in a hurry.
It didn’t really sink in until later. I’m still not 100% sure that he meant me harm, but there were way, way too many warning signals to give him the benefit of the doubt, most of which I didn’t consciously recognize at the time. If the situation had been slightly different, if I’d still been loading my equipment, or if I’d been driving a smaller car, I might not have thought to just get in. If he’d rephrased his question, asked with more normal timing, or approached more casually, I might have ignored my inner alarm bells. The kicker is that this happened at a shooting range - I guarantee he had a gun, either on him or in his car.
I was lucky. It still scares me thinking about how vulnerable I was, and how much of it hinged on chance. If he’d been a slightly more adept predator… Y’know, I really don’t want to think about it.
My aunt was in college at the right time and the right place with the right ‘look’ to have attracted Ted Bundy’s attention. She remembers being approached in a parking lot by a guy with his arm in a cast, a technique that Bundy used pretty frequently. Was it him? Dunno. Nothing happened, fortunately, so it’s just a vaguely scary memory.