My frustrating life

Well first things first, since im new, hey guys!! :slight_smile: (actually i’ve been around for a while, i’m just too lazy to register.)

Now to the point. Have any of you been in the kinda situation that I’m in right now? I’d be suprised if you hadn’t. I have a friend who i’ve known for quite a while and i’ve always kinda had a thing for him. The trouble is, he lives a long way away and we almost never see each other. For the past few months i’ve been getting the feeling that he feels the same way which isn’t nesessarily a bad thing, but its so frustrating. I love him lots and he says he does too but i can’t help wishing he wouldn’t because every time he tells me i wish he was right here with me. He’s the sweetest and most caring person i know (pretty hot too ;)) and i know it would be so good if we were together.

Sound familiar to anyone? If not, have you got similar tales? I know i can’t be the only one.

Go for it. A good relationship is worth whatever effort it needs to continue. But, be open and up front with your feelings. No need for either one of you to strung along, just hoping for something to happen.

Enjoy

My best friend is in an on-again, off-again relationship with someone who lives in Toronto, while she’s on the other side of Montreal. They are finding it tough, but are both aiming to get their lives (post graduation) to a point where they can be together. She is planning on moving to Toronto sometime next year, and they are going to basically pick up the relationship where it left off (or still is…I don’t know. She sees him 5 or 6 times a year, and they are definitely ïnvolved").

I’d love to go for it, believe me, but its just unrealistic. I dunno, maybe in a few years time we might live closer together. He wants to come over to London and i don’t know where i’ll be, probably at a university somewhere. For now we just have to be friends