Agreed. That’s the whole point in dating someone for a long time before marriage. Is it really someone that you’re compatible with and want to spend fifty years together. Through sickness and health.
I was with a girl for five years. Had a lot of good times. But there was a few nagging issues. Her drinking and partying really had me worried. There were other issues too. I finally decided it wasn’t worth the risk. I did eventually find the right lady and we’ve been together 23 years. I’m looking forward to growing old with her in the next 25 years. 