I’ve met Biggirl and Mr Biggirl ( whose Member name at the moment sadly escapes me…sorry :rolleyes:.
They’re pretty damned neat people, and seem socially just as Biggie has presented. She’s the chirp, he’s the silent magic ( to quote Penn and Teller ). It sounds to me like he’s being pretty up front about this gal’s issues in her life, and the level of intensity in the friendship he’s got going with her. She shouldn’t be up in arms unless she’s on the way to delivering a hug to the Mr. 
My best friend is a woman. In fact, she’s a friend I met here on the Internet. Almost all of my close friends have always been women. Does my wife know this? Yes. Does she try to dig into various conversations, especially Internet IM’s or talks? No, she does not.
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My wife won’t admit it, but I’m sure she doesn’t like the fact that I make friends with women much easier than men. Always have. When a female friend of mine from college, one who I had known 10 years before I met my wife, came to visit from Germany, my wife sat across the room and didn’t say a word.
Although she doesn’t seem to mind that my two closest friends at work are both women. I guess since they’re both lesbians.
The issue here is not that **Biggirl ** trusts Houseman . Which she obviously does. The issue was other people’s reaction to her hubby having a woman friend. I’ve known both of them for a over 10 years and **Houseman ** is really great to talk to. He has some excellent man opinions.
Would any woman want to jump his bones? Why sure.The real question is would he reciprocate? I don’t think so! That’s all that really matters in this situation.