Topics like this make me seethe, and really, I should just pass them by.
My grandfather was retired Army, my father retired Air Force, my husband retired Army.
Lower grade enlisted members are not bathing in money. And while a working spouse is almost necessary, it’s next to impossible to find a job at every duty station, no matter how skilled you are.
And the BIGGEST unaccounted for pay factor you have is the fact that military members are on duty 24 hours a day. 7 days a week. 365 days a year.
The boss calls you up at 2 AM on a civilian job and says, “Get yer ass in here. We’re going out into the field for a month.”
As a civilian, you tell said boss to screw himself, and roll over, go back to sleep.
My soldier jumps up, gets dressed, throws together what he needs. I pack the goodie bag. I probably have to take the kids out of bed, get them dressed, and shove them into the back of the car. A lot of military families can only afford ONE car.
And then for the next 30/60/90 whatever days, I’m Mom, Dad, repair person, bill payer, etc etc etc.
It’s REALLY great when you work 40 miles away from home, and the baby has a chronic ear infection and needs the tubes.
By this time, Hubster had been in about 17 years, so he’d “qualify” for a family.
And just a little FYI: recreation and shopping facilities on base/on post are supported by the Morale, Recreation, and Welfare fund, a sort of little “tax” that is placed on all purchases.
My biggest gripe is that the folks who come up with all these “great moneysaving ideas” have never walked in the boots of a military member OR a spouse.
I’ll listen to your suggestions AFTER you put in your time.
~VOW