Save the bottles. I’m pretty sure that most home brewers reuse the bottles, and the bottle carriers, too. I think that the caps are disposable, but I’m not sure.
Unfortunately, after a few experiences of soured relations with neighbors, I no longer want mine to be friends. I’d be perfectly happy if they were relatively quiet and maintained their property.
But like I said - good luck. Few things could beat a nice homebrew passed over the fence on a summer afternoon!
Caps can be tossed. It’s extra-nice to rinse the yeast out of the bottom of the bottle with some plain water.
If you really want to be a good neighbor, ask him if he’d like you to save any brown bottles that had non-twist-off caps. (Last I looked into it, you can’t - or can’t easily - cap a twist-off bottle as a homebrewer.)