How awful—I hope you can get through this next year just on auto-pilot; you’ll never “get over this,” but maybe in a year or so it won’t slam at you quite so much.
hlanelee, I don’t know what to say. I remember how fondly you wrote of your wife, of your relationship with your wife. She was a wonderful person who loved you with all of her heart. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through right now.
I’m truly and deeply sorry for your loss.
I don’t know what to say - I’m terrible at this sort of thing. My wife and I are on the verge of truly starting our lives together (she’s moving to Europe soon), and reading messages like this one really drives the point home - every day we spend apart is a day wasted.
I’m truly sorry your journey with your wife ended so soon. May she rest in, and may you find - peace.
I’m very sorry to hear this. I wish you and your family peace.
My heartfelt sympathy. 
I’m so sorry. How sudden! From what I’ve read of her here, she was an amazing woman. My thoughts and a prayer or two are with you and yours.
I too am very sorry, hlanelee .
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I’m so sorry, hlanelee.
She sounded like a wonderful woman. You’ll be in my thoughts.
I am terribly sad at your loss, hlanelee.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I just saw this title, yelled out, “Oh my God!” and started to cry. You don’t know who I am, but I’m one of many people who have been touched by your stories of your wife. Amazing is the only word for her. My thoughts go out to you today, hlanelee.
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
I’m truly sorry to hear your news.
Oh my god, I would never like to make the DNR call. At least you had discussed it beforehand. I regret that you lost her, but the SDMB is strong. You should pull through.
I am so sorry for your loss.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Aries and Sauron
I’m so sorry. Peace be with you.
hlanelee, my condolences to you and your family.
My prayers are with you. Your wife will never be forgotten.
My deepest sympathies go out to you, hlanelee.