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Let them uncles take care of you for a while.
Quit running around the message board trying to take care of everyone else, ya big sweety. 
Thank you and if there’s anything I can ever do for you, just email.
hlanelee, you don’t know me, but I know you from your posts. I know you from your posts about your wife, and I know she was a truly wonderful person because of the way you wrote about her. It may sound weird, but I think about you and your relationship with your wife often, and all I know about you is your member name. I saw the title of this thread, and your name under it, and I cringed inside. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that we’re all here for you and love you, and we all are truly sorry for your loss.
Honoring her wishes on the DNR must have been able to give you some comfort during such an awful time.
What you have endured and what you have overcome are nothing short of amazing, my friend. You don’t have to be strong right now. Just be.
Peace.
Joan
hlanelee, I’m sending my warmest thoughts from Ohio to you. Take care of yourself as best you can, lean on anyone you can and let them lean back on you. You will be in many people’s prayers in the weeks and months to come.