Summary for mouseover previews: I’m trying to figure out if I can realistically pursue a move to the UK for at least a few years.
OK, so, despite being an American I’ve been a massive Anglophile for most of my life now. I consume more media and culture from Britain than I do from the US. I’ve visited twice, and both times, returning home felt more like leaving home. I’ve long felt like I will be really disappointed if I die without having lived there - at least for a while. My wife is of the same opinion, luckily.
Right now, I’m in the home stretch of a biology PhD, and the time has come to think seriously about the next step. This seems like the ideal time to consider a move overseas. We have two small children - girls 4 and 2. I’m trying to, first, get a sense as to whether this is in any way a realistic thing to consider going after, or if I should drop it as a nice dream, and go after something here at home instead, and plan on lots of vacations over there. I’m hoping to pick some brains about some specific concerns and questions I have. Most of these are probably pretty specific, and I’ll be lucky to find anyone who can give me even an opinion, but, hey I gotta start somewhere.
Feel free to answer as many or as few as you can contribute to. Pointers to other resources and people to talk to would be useful as well.
First area: financial. I know that getting a work permit in the UK as a foreigner is a pretty hefty obstacle. But putting that aside, I’d be looking for a job as a newly minted biology PhD. Probably not in academia; I’d be happy to look at industry or other options. But I’d need a job that pays well enough to support me, my wife, and two kids and give us a place to live.
Inner city life is out. We’re not big city people. We don’t need a stately manor house or anything, but niceish suburbia is fine.
In addition, I’ve got a significant amount of student loan debt. Figure loan payments of $700 or so a month. I know that taxes are much higher in the UK than here; would those payments be tax-deductable?
Is it in any way realistic to imagine that with my degree, I could get a job that would allow me to support and house my family while not defaulting on my loans? I don’t think we could count on my wife working, at least not immediately.
Which brings me to my other major area of concern: health. I know that foreign workers in the UK get access to the NHS. How long does that take? In essence, I’m diabetic - how many weeks’ or months’ worth of supplies would I need to bring along before I can count on getting my medication over there?
And probably the biggest issue: my 4-year-old daughter is autistic. What level of services are available in the UK for autistic kids? Right now, she’s getting several in-home visits every week from speech therapists and others, plus an in-class helper when she’s in preschool, all paid for by the school district. And our state is sort of middle of the road for autism services. What would she get over there? How does it compare? Does it vary from area to area within the country?
Those are the main things on my mind right now. Thanks in advance for your help.