Originally posted by Shodan :
Wrong, and I’ll thank you not to try to put words in my mouth.
I’ll apologise for that if you apologise for putting a label on me that isn’t true:
**If we both have a bias, why is it only me who cannot “debate the issue fairly”?
Although you are correct that I don’t always understand your points. Possibly because of my agenda; possibly because they may not be as clear as you think to someone who does not share your agenda of “radical feminism”. It cuts both ways, as you probably already know.**
I am NOT a radical feminist and never claimed to be one. I’m not even a card carrying feminist; although I am female and believe in equality of opportunity regardless of gender. I’m not even a liberal (except socially). If I had to choose a political label for myself it would be moderate (which doesn’t really say much, I know). But is that radical?
You, on the other hand, have identified yourself on these boards as a conservative, is that not so? If I am mistaken about that, I will apologise. No one is w/o bias, but I consider my views here to reflect much more balance than yours have. They may not be correct (a matter of opinion), but they don’t come from an extremist agenda. Maybe you haven’t read the whole thread?
As far as I can tell, you are arguing that these kinds of false accusations are not serious.
Again, I suggest you go back and read my posts. This is simply not so. You’ve come to this thread after 3 pages - I had moved past the question of whether or not they are serious (I said they were) and was focusing on the validity of the various numbers and studies. If you consider wanting to know the truth a bias then should I assume you are anti-truth?
**You don’t find it alarming that the innocent are being accused? You don’t find it alarming that the credibility of women is being undermined? You don’t find it alarming that women who have been genuinely attacked are being belittled?
This is what you call “spin”?**
Again, read my posts to answer the first question. I said I did find it alarming. And because I also find it alarming that women are being belittled and having their credibility undermined, I take issue with posts that allude to something like this:
It would seem to me that if irresponsible women can stop using false accusations of rape to get attention for their disorderly conduct complaints, then we can deal with the “real problem” of rape.
What if I said:
“It would seem to me that if men would stop raping women there wouldn’t be a problem to begin with”.
Would it be technically accurate? Yes. Would it show bias? Also yes. Statements like this, and the one you’ve asserted, don’t show an interest in solving a problem or debating fairly. To me, it smacks of agenda-speak and spin.
Can’t make an omelette without breaking a few ova, right?
That isn’t a cheap shot? If I put words in your mouth, I apologise, but I see spin and I see belittling of women, however subtly you want to word it.