This is spun off from this thread about Preventing Rapists or at least I hope it will be.
One issue I’ve seen brought up several times in discussion of rapes is that of false accusations of rape. It’s a valid point, even if there’s disagreement about how common false accusations of rape are. I don’t know anyone who’s been falsely accused of rape, but one of my closest friends was accused of being a sex predator and I saw the way it destroyed his marriage and nearly his life. What can we do to prevent such false accusations, both as a society and individuals and what should our response to them be.
Here’s my two cents. If a woman deliberately, falsely accuses a man of rape, I think she should go to jail and pay restitution to cover the monetary loss he suffers because of this. The information that he was falsely accused should be publicly disseminated at least as widely as the original accusation. This could include taking out full-page newspaper ads.
Socially, including the circumstances in which my friend found himself, my solution is simple. You don’t reward such acts by treating the person as a hero. Instead, you treat her like the idiot she is. Make it clear that such behaviour is reprehensible. I’d also advise against dating anyone whose done such a thing.
This issue isn’t my strong suit, and I have a hard time being unbiased or compassionate. On the other hand, there are other people here who might enjoy it.
Enjoy!
CJ