Left Hand of Dorkness, I understand that genetics doesn’t work that way. And although the general consensus is that my question was irrelevant – and certainly any point made during a debate should be relevant – I did not understand that it wasn’t relevant to others at the time I asked it.
(Those that seem almost hostile about its relevance did not comment at all about the multipost flirtation that went on in that thread. Was that relevant? (No, it didn’t bother me, but I don’t get all bent out of shape if we don’t stick to a strictly formal debate form. Et tu, Hazlenut Coffee?
LHOD, You’ve been able to sort through what went wrong well. It is easy to confess to poor rhetoric and I have done so – though not using exactly that particular word for those of who are literal minded.
Maybe you and jsgoddess can sort through the genetics of different kinds of hair. Questions of genetic differences are a puzzle to me, but jsgoddess seems to be a source of information. Anything you can add would be appreciated.
I took no umbrage at all, monstro. Of course the one drop rule was born out of racism! How could it not be? That would be illogical.
**Racism in all of its variations is ugly. Your sister has a problem with it. **
If you look back through the posts of both GD threads, try making a list of insults that I made. Before, you said I was being too defensive. You said nothing about my making any attacks on your sister.
Why don’t you be specific about what you think I said that was insulting and attacking. I dare you.
In the first thread about race, you were the first to question my feelings. And you were the one who labelled me “colorblind.” I didn’t mind the label because I didn’t think it was given with hostility. I thought you knew me well enough. But when others said that I had claimed to be “colorblind,” why didn’t you speak up? You knew that I had no made that claim.
As for the question on the one drop rule, I didn’t think it was an irrelevant sidetrack. You did. I thought the flirtation was an irrelevant sidetrack. So what? Are we that formal in GD? We all have a right to our opinions. Maybe your opinion is worth more than mine. Maybe jsgoddess’s opinion of whether my feelings were for real or not wasn’t a very appropriate thread to put up in GD. “Let’s debate Zoe’s feelings.” How’s that for a thread topic? That’s how that thread read to me. Next time, let’s talk about whether you are being honest about your feelings and experiences. Let’s question whether you are truthful. Or maybe something jsgoddess mentions would be good to put under a microscope. Let you see what it feels like to be nitpicked and have your integrity questioned as if you had done nothing of any value.
Sorry if my “hitting her” has been scheduled for a bad day for her. She has always been so meek and quiet. (Except for that razor tongue that her friends love.) When would be a more convenient time for her?
I played by the rules, monstro. Your sister did not. She is the one that was described as an angry woman * by her friend* in the other thread.
You are right. She nipped at my heels one too many times and I kicked back, but only figuratively. Go read the thread, monstro. Look at the reality of it.
I will end my contribution to this thread with my choice for the stupidest thing ever posted in General Debates. Then I’m having a cup of tea following by several days off for some good reading.
“What you asked doesn’t belong in General Debates because it has a factual answer that can not be disputed by anyone with even a passing familiarity with history.” - you with the face