[One mark of someone who is headed in the right direction nutrion-wise is:
There is internal, personal satisfaction from eating right and being healthy, and it becomes much more rewarding than the feelings of guilt one experiences after cheating, or maintaining bad nutritional habits.
That’s when you’ve turned the corner, so to speak…when you are happy - genuinely happy - to eat well day after day…but you are miserable or disappointed when you spend the day clogging your arteries.
Until this point is reached, long term success is in jeopardy - not impossible, but in jeopardy.
Eating right should eventually feel good, feel satisfying and have an overall benefit to your life that you are happy to be experiencing. You shouldn’t feel like you are ‘on a diet’ or ‘fighting to stay on the plan’. If so, long term success is at risk.]
This is so well-said. As someone who has recently (like in the past year) finally turned that corner, it’s so true. Right now, everyone in the building where I work is doing Atkins. Well, almost everyone. In the last year, I’ve lost 25 pounds, and yeah, it’s taken me a year, and yeah, I’ve been exercising a LOT, but I finally banned anything with the words “fat free” or “low fat” from my house. I eat foods I enjoy, which is so much more important to me than being “thin”. So while most of my co-workers are running around eating low carb bars and have stopped eating some things they love, I had pizza last night and enjoyed every bite. I had the most amazing Italian food last week and LOVED it. I have also had some incredible fresh from the garden vegetables sauteed in olive oil with garlic and OMG they were good.
I no longer want to be “thin”. I want to be healthy. I want to be fit. My ideal build, if we were comparing ourselves to celebrities, would be Angela Bassett – she is totally BUFF. And I want to be happy, and I get so much pleasure out of good food. But finally I can stop at ONE serving of whatever tastes better than thin feels.
It’s absolutely wonderful when you finally discover you can eat what you like and lose weight, and it’s no gimmick or trick, it’s just moderation.
Jess