Let’s see, I lived in Manhattan during school, which doesn’t really count because I lived in the the dorms, and then after college, for about 7 years.
Now, I live in Brooklyn, we’ve been here for about 5 years.
You mentioned crime, which I think is a almost a non-issue these days. I don’t know where you’re hearing that from, I think it’s more of a TV thing. Most parts of Manhattan are very safe places to live.
The congestion … well yes, it’s crowded. I’m not sure if that’s a negative, though. Traffic is congested, but many (if not most) people who live in Manhattan don’t have cars, so the subway serves just fine. In terms of people crowds, I would say most New Yorkers like crowds, even when we complain about them. Yes, of course you don’t want a crowd when you personally need to go shopping at Century 21. I find it somewhat unsettling when I visit other US cities and there aren’t crowds. Where are all the people?
Cost. Well, this is a biggie. Keep in mind that most salaries are inflated a bit as well. Speaking only of my own personal job, I know that I make more in this position in Manhattan than I would in a similar job at just about any other school in the country. When I lived in Manhattan, I walked to work, saving the cost of either a car or public transportation. Here in Brooklyn, where I pay less in rent than I would for an apartment of similar size in Manhattan, paying for transportation is another added cost.
So why did I move to Brooklyn, and what are the pros and cons?
The main reason for the move was to get more space for the amount of rent we pay. I had been in my apartment in Manhattan for a while, and it was rent stabilized so my own rent stayed about the same, but we got a lot more space in Brooklyn. Now that I think about it, that was the only reason for the move. I am the kind of person who has a lot of stuff, and the extra space was needed for that, plus we now have enough space to have a pet.
I work in Greenwich Village, which is toward the downtown part of Manhattan, it takes me 1/2 hour, door to door, to take the subway into work. I also live fairly close to Manhattan, there are parts of Deepest Brooklyn that would make the commute by subway over an hour.
Things I miss: the 24 hourness of Manhattan. Yes, we have a 24 hour deli here in my Brooklyn neighborhood, but it’s only the one. In my old Manhattan neighborhood, there were countless delis, restaurants, and even bars open 24 hours. Here in Fort Greene, if we have to work late, we’ve missed the window of opportunity to order a pizza. In Manhattan, we could get food delivered at any time.
So you might be asking, but who wants or needs to have a cheeseburger deluxe delivered at 2 AM? Well, you never know. I think part of what New Yorkers like about being New Yorkers is that you could get a cheeseburger delivered to you at any time, even if you don’t avail yourself of this very often. It’s part of the New York mindset.
Right now there’s a lot of buzz about our Brooklyn neighborhood becoming more commercialized, with a lot of large chain stores moving in. But there is still nothing close to the variety of stores and other kinds of businesses in Manhattan.
This one is always hard to explain – keep in mind that living in Manhattan, I didn’t have a car. If I wanted to go to the gym after work, I could carry my gym stuff with me to work, in addition to my briefcase or laptop or whatever else I was lugging around. Or, I could run home during lunch or after work and get my gym bag. Out here in Brookyn, I absolutely need to have every single thing I need for the entire day with me when I leave the house in the morning, and I’m carrying it myself, not in the trunk of my car. So there is something very convenient about having a base of operations right in the city.