Also negative, often. We’re ALL programmed to expect men to talk more, and more assertively than women, and we all find it weird and ‘off’ when that doesn’t happen
(example: I went back over my link to the comedian/archbishop thing a little more carefully a minute or two ago and find that I was quite wrong to say that the comedian talked faster and louder because she had to, in order to be heard. The blogger addressed this too - she didn’t actually talk louder either! So I myself was totally misled by my expectations, despite actually being on her side)