I did a brief, five-person poll today on this very thing.
Three people said, very clearly, “meer.” All three are Michigan born and bred. The other two said “mirr-er” - one from northern Ohio, the other from South Carolina.
So I’m also thinking a regional difference.
It isn’t upsetting me. I just recognise that you made a sweeping generalisation and called you on it.
It is like how the whole of Ireland says “thirty” as if there isn’t an “H” there. Are they doing it wrong? Are they doing it just to irritate people? Or is that just how they do it there?
And an OED cite with regards to pronunciation will be geared towards RP/Estuary English as that’s how the OED thinks things should be pronounced. Unfortunately the whole world doesn’t speak that sort of English.
In linguist school I heard a story of a Boston school teacher illustrating the concept of homophones with the pair often/orphan.
Homophones are dangerous territory anyway. My grade school textbooks used the pair our/hour as an example every time this concept came up. In my part of Pennsylvania, those words don’t sound much alike in ordinary speech…
It has been claimed here before that the proper response is just “How are you?” However, I assert that this is an archaic notion in most of the U.S.
I personally think “Offen” sounds hickish, in the same way victuals is pronounced vittles. That said, I do say it that way except when I’m emphasizing it. And my emphasis has nothing to do with hypercorrection. Like I said, I just think it sounds better.
The other words so-spelled rarely need emphasize to get their point across (at least, in my speech), so I am unsurprised that this has not happened with them.
Huh? The standard response to someone asking “How are you?” is something along the lines of “Fine, thanks and you?” or “Good, how are you?” You first answer and then ask them back, the exchange doesn’t just go
A: How are you?
B: How are you?
Count me as another who doesn’t see why saying “I’m well” is hypercorrecting. Do you mean using the word “well” instead of “good”?
Hmm, in my case it was because I first saw that word as a music student. And I always conflated the two meanings, as if you were saying “The skill of painting is loud within her” or some such.