It does make sense in that it’s not a punishment. I know that your big heart wants them to have a nice life, and I respect that, but not letting someone become a citizen with the SOLE argument of “But my parents broke a big law to get me this status” is not taking anything away. It’s simply doing what has to be done to get the actions we want. I didn’t say, “Put the kid in jail” or “Fine him horribly”.
One of the sad truths is that we can’t avoid lumping kids in with their parents. Every day parents do things that are bad for kids, but in all practical terms I can’t protect all kids from bad or stupid parents. I once had to tell a tutoring student she could only come back to our SAT classes after her dad paid the full amount. He was weeks late, refused to honor his signed agreement, and insisted he didn’t have to talk to me about it. She had come to our company for a long time, and cried, but I couldn’t protect her from the bad actions of her dad. I just don’t have the authority to remove his oversight and control from her life.
I think the fundamental disconnect in these arguments is that one side doesn’t really believe there is a problem in illegal immigration. If there’s no problem, then we can just let things slide all the time. It also means that we can start to view not just giving everyone citizenship as “punishment”. It all reminds me of the abortion debate: if you think the fetus is truly human, it’s murder, and if you don’t, then it’s a “potential” of some kind that can be disposed of if wanted. The two sides can’t ever agree, because the real arguement is on a deep philosophical/spiritual level, and all the arguments can’t change the starting premeses of the two sides.
Ok, a serious question. If these kids are deserving of citizenship, whose only arguement is that they’re already here because their parents broke the law to be here and deliberately worked the system to subvert the very spirit and point of the law, then who is NOT deserving of citizenship? I’m really asking. These are people who were told “Stay out”, then came in already and essentially shouted “Possession is 9/10ths!”.