That’s me! And I’m glad you guys are still together. Your kids are adorable!
IIRC, 1990’s shirt was the one with the passage from a textbook, talking about sucking air out of a tube, except it was that old-world script in which s’s look like f’s. I know 1989 had The Cat in the Hat, but I didn’t buy that one.
I haven’t kept up with many people from SJC. I do recall, a few years ago, detouring to SF when we were driving across country, going onto the campus and asking random people if NABLA was still in effect, and getting blank looks. Everything changes; that’s why I don’t like going back to places I’ve left. Fell in love with Pittsburgh, and with JTL, and that was that. But I do still have residual loyalty to NM!