I am interested in my family history but it’s my youngest sister who has done the most work, organizing documents, pictures, and other materials on some of our different family lines.
This past weekend, when she and my BIL went northeast on an eclipse trip, we left a day early to look up gravesites for some ancestors. The first stop was in Springfield Illinois cemetery, the same one where Lincoln is buried. It’s huge, and typically of such large sites there are newer parts and much older sections. Sis was looking in an older section, for a two greats grandparent. It’s kind of sad. The grass is cut and all but in such an old area many stones were unreadable, or tipped over and broken. The person being sought was not found.
So on to Decatur, and while this place was much smaller we still didn’t find who we were looking for. Again many stones were in a decrepit state, but more were clearer.
On Monday morning we had arrived in Indiana and thanks to GPS a tiny little place way out in the country was located. It was about the size of a nice front yard. Officially it had the name of the ancestor we were looking for, a four greats grandfather. But this place was the saddest of all. It was totally abandoned. There probably hadn’t been a burial there in a hundred years. The short slate rock walls were tumbled in places, and only a few of the larger markers were legible. Many were tilted or broken. But we finally found this one gentleman we were searching for, although his wife, who was supposed to be there too, we did not see. His stone was tilted some but was leaning up against the short wall and so had not been broken, We left some flowers, probably the first tim in a hundred and fifty years to grave had been decorated.
I’ve been in a number of old cemeteries and like reading the wording of things on the grave, but this place had something we hadn’t seen before. On two or three larger markers that could be read, the wife, if it was a couples stone, was referred to as the man’s “consort” Has anyone else ever seen that?
The final place was almost as sad as the one above, but it was not so isolated. So out of four searches only one was successful, but at least we had that one.
Yesterday I went out to a cemetery here in Topeka that is the first cemetery registed in the city. It is huge too, although maybe not as large as Springfield was. There is a couple there who are three greats grandparents of mine. The husband was the son of that four greats guy we did find. Now I want to read up on cleaning stones. Theirs is worn and somewhat mossy, but thankfully intact.
When I die I will be interred in a small country cemetery in a county west of here. There are a good number of family members there, but none with my name, as they are all in family lines on my mother’s side. But the couple I will be beside are great grandparents, descendants of the father and son I mentioned above.
Does anyone else find old cemeteries interesting? I like the different styles of stones, and the engravings fascinating. A lamb on top of a stone usually indicates the grave of a child… The place I am going is still active, although burials started there in the 1870’s
What do you think of cemeteries and visiting graves?