Anyone have a parent or grandparent go all wack-o while in the hospital?
We took my grandmother, 88, into the hospital last week because she was kinda wheezy (otherwise she’s been in excellent health except for occassionally losing her balance). She was diagnosed with chronic obstructive pumonary disease (COPD), which they took care of for now, but we do understand it will get progressively worse. Unfortunately, while there she fell and broke her hip (or, rather, it is more likely that her hip gave way), and she required surgery (which went well and she’s already started physical therapy).
Her stay in the hospital, however, has been marked with marked bouts of paranoia, disorientation and delusions. She thinks the hospital is watching her (videotaping, recording phone conversations), that they know she’s going to sue them for her fall (which she isn’t, as it wasn’t negligence), and her roommate is a spy. It was so bad that on one occassion they had to restrain her.
In speaking with her doctor and others in the profession, this is a common situation, sometimes called “sundowning.” It seems that elderly patients, when put into the hospital, have medical problems and are on various medications, go all bonky when the sun goes down. 1 mg of Haldol, an anti-psychotic, and they’re fine; give them the normal adult dose of 5-10 mg, and they get worse.
So she’s getting the Haldol, and now she’s fine - about 95% of the time. The other 5% she continues to believe there’s some kind of hospital/Medicare fraud/scam going on, but she’s kinda vague on the details. Talking sense to her, of course, is futile. (In fact, in trying to do so, she accused me of being on “their side,” so I wisely shut up and let her babble.) And now that she’s mostly sane again, she is actively involved in her recovery, which is the most important thing she needs to do before complications set in from the surgery.
So anybody else been through this with an elderly relative or friend? It’s really kinda freaky.
Side note: When my father was in for several months last year he started to get depressed, so they gave him Ativan, an anti-depressant, which made him go wonky - he was hallucinating that he was a British secret service agent, on a fishing boat, and in a submarine. Very odd. Needless to say, they took him off that quick. Kind of amusing in a bizzare sort of way, though. We joke about it now.
Esprix