Well done Art !! I wish I had the guts and willpower to be able to say the same. Keep it up and keep up the self-pride that you must certainly be feeling.
Congratulations, Art!! My husband has 8 years now, and some of it has not been easy. I have great respect for anyone who can admit their powerlessness (is that a word?)
Congratulations and my utmost respect to Art, Scott Evil, Qadgop, and all the rest of you. Addiction is one curse I’ve been spared, but I know those who haven’t, and I’m proud of you for overcoming it and continuing to do so.
Seige, for me, it’s pretty simple, especially since I was sober for about three years (after bottoming out while in university) before going off on a hellish three-year slip, bottoming out even lower than I could have imagined, and getting sober again:
I drink. Bad things happen to me, my life deteriorates, my sanity goes down the toilet, and I no longer want to live. (And it all starts with one drink; my slip did.)
I stay sober. Good things happen to me, my life gets better each day, I regain my sanity and then some, and I can look forward to a happy life.
Yup, pretty simple. It’s really sad that so many people who need to “get it” just don’t, either because of (false) pride, ego, fear (to admit you can’t handle alcohol, period), or just plain stubbornness.
Well done, guy. I quit for a while last year but, being the moron I am, started again. They were the happiest, most productive weeks I’ve had since I was sixteen. So, serious attempt no. 2 starts very soon (he said, procrastinating like a bastard.)
And yes, Antiochus, quitting drinking is irritating. Quitting smoking is like losing a loved one. Jeez, I wish I’d behaved when I was younger.