Oh Lord, how to answer this. I live in LaPorte, which is 45 minutes- one hour from Merrillville, Hobart, Crown Point, etc.
There is a big mall and nice shopping center in Merrillville. The Star Plaza Theatre for “B” names performers. I would check out Valparaiso and Chesterton for good schools. I can’t really say too much about Merrillville and other school as I only see them during HS soccer games.
I hate LaPorte, but Valparaiso and points west aren’t too bad, EXCEPT Gary, Hammond, East Chicago, THEY SUCK or at least what I have seen sucks. Michigan City sucks too, IMHO, but we have friends there that like it. I think Slug Signorino, Cecil’s artist, is from Michigan City.
You have the commmunities along Lake Michigan (Michigan City, Beverly Shores, Ogden Dunes) that tend to be wealthier and the communites south (MVille, CP, Munster) that tend to be more middle class. The thing is, most of the towns tend to blend together; it’s a big megalopolis from MVille into Chicago. Most communities are commuter towns that feed into Chicago.
I would not move here (LP) again, but I would move to Valparaiso. Valpo is a nice college town, nice places to live and eat. There are things to do and Chicago and Lake Michigan are close.
We take the train into Chicago from Chesterton or Michigan City five six times/year or so. In fact, this Saturday we are going to the Shedd Aquarium and hang out in Chicago for the day. I have yet to feel unsafe in the five years that we have been going there and I’m a small town guy in the big city.
I can’t really see that it’s (Merrillville, Hobart, CP, etc.) worse than any other big city (with exceptions noted above). There seems to be the whole spectrum of poor, middle class, and downright filthy rich in these areas.
Does this help?