Holly, interesting statement of how they
( the medical community) cannot take your organs without your permission. Whilst in England in the newspaper there was a huge brewhaha of a hospital that removed the organs of dead children ( dying of other causes) and transplanted them said organ into desperately ill children.
I forget all the numbers or exact location, but it had been going on they think for years. I don’t know how this story came to light or the hospital/doctor(s) got busted. Personally, during that grief stricken moment of losing my child to say, an auto accident, I probably wouldn’t sign their organs away because I was not thinking rationally or if I was in said car , would not be physically able to do so. But if I found out months/years later about it, it would not bother me as much as some parents have gone nutzo over learning this. Especially if it help another child live.
Yes, I understand there are lines that cannot be crossed, but dead is dead. These children were dying anyway and the physicians did not withhold treatment from the child. Mandatory donation will never fly in this country because most people are squeamish to discuss about death, much less sex.
i’ve always said that if one planned their funereal like they plan for a wedding, then it would not be such a big deal and give the other family members a sense of comfort knowing what you, the deceased wanted and had it prearranged.
Good lord willing and the creeks don’t rise, if my body/organs are acceptable for donation at the time I join the invisible choir above, I have my signed donor card and my family knows my wishes.
I have taken it one step farther:Whenever my inlaws watch my son for a couple of days, they have an emergency form (citing doctors, meds/allegeries/insurance info, etc), permission for them to act on our behalf if we are not reachable AND should death occur, that we would like our son’s organs to be donated.
Morbid as it sounds, knowing that some other family could receive comfort in a time of crisis would offer some comfort to me.
The early bird gets the worm but it’s the second mouse that gets the cheese.