This is pretty close to how I feel about it. I am not a believer by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have a lot of respect for the JW’s for having a solid foundation for their thoughts and actions. I may not agree with any of it on a personal level, but absolutely everything she thinks and feels comes straight from scripture and has reasoning behind it–mad props to the JW’s for bible study. As far as being “willing to discuss those reasons” we’ve had opportunity for endless hours of discussion, and while she knows I’m an atheist and give her beliefs as much weight and creedence as those of any other belief system, be it Jewish, Muslim, Hare Krishna, or Buddhist (which is to say equal on all levels, and a weight >0 ) she is totally willing to discuss and explain her beliefs, which I truly appreciate. I’m interested in the general study of religious belief of any flavor, as I am fokelore, fairy tales, myths, legends, and parables. I find it fascinating to explore what people believe and why, and I do want to earnestly thank you the raindog and others for putting forth the effort.
Beaucarnea, I hope I didn’t give the impresson of ridiculing the JW’s in any sense. While I found some of her explanations puzzling, I don’t look down on the JW’s for their beliefs, and if anything have more respect for them than I do most other Christian denominations.
I do wish faiths would actively encourage their members to consider their faith more carefully. As far as “avoid[ing] those who… attempt to place doubts in the mind of the believer” it always seemed to me a bit dubious. If you, as a believer, can consider the “doubts” and resolve your faith in the face of such questions, well… if your beliefs are the true path, shouldn’t it survive the scrutiny and leave you far more solid in your faith in the end? For example, these discussions I’ve been having with my co-worker leave us both feeling pretty satisfied. She has an opportunity to explore her faith from the POV of a non-believer, and I’m learning all about a belief system I’d not had much contact with before.
Incidentally, sunrazor states: You won’t get consistent explanations across the spectrum of believers…
One thing my co-worker makes a big point about is Jesus saying something like “you’ll know my people by the unity among them” and how the JW’s world wide are extremely consistent in their beliefs and study, to the extent that every meeting hall world wide on any given Sunday will be studying the same passages and having the same discussions. Whether this constitutes consistency in faith or an extremely effective (what’s a monumentally less judgemental word than “brainwashing”? Something that describes a mass of people all indoctrinated with the same belief with zero wiggle room for personal interpretation)… something, what you can say about them is they’re consistent in their beliefs.

