Why are my ears burning?
Well, I suppose some of you were expecting me to check in, on this subject. And, I’d hate to disappoint a lady. My preference is sexy, which , to me, means minimal coverage. Material is pretty much irrelevant, although some fabrics which have a richer look or feel are more sensual than some others. I actually agree with some of the ladies who’ve said lace is not their favorite. It looks nice, but it doesn’t feel nice.
But, I totally loathe, hate, and despise the boy cut briefs that seem to be so popular, lately. They completely destroy the visual flow of the leg that is one of the great beauties of Woman. And, boxers? :rolleyes:
And, someone asked when showing underwear became fashionable instead of trashy. Well, the two aren’t mutually exclusive. Sometimes trashy is fashionable. And, I suspect this particular fashion probably dates to the late eighties, when idiotic young men were displaying three inches of their boxers above the waistbands of their baggy-ass pants. I hated it then, and it doesn’t appeal to me now, even if it is a woman doing it.
I’ve said before, a little trashiness is hot. But, it needs to be done deliberately, yet with a an innocent sense of fun, in order to be sexy. Deliberately letting your underwear hang out, to titillate, doesn’t make that cut. Unintentionally letting your underwear hang out, because you just don’t know or don’t care, doesn’t, either.
And, for all the ladies who’ve said their SOs don’t notice their underwear, so they just wear granny panties, or whatever… well… what is there to notice? Full coverage briefs are about as sexy as sweat pants. Who’s going to comment on them? (Aside from the occasional fetishist.) If you want him to notice, try wearing just a thong or string bikini under either a soft T-shirt that just reaches your hips, or one of his button-down shirts, unbuttoned.
He’ll notice.