Mine is grown, out of the house, struggling. I don’t think she’s completely happy or healthy, but that’s nothing new. We help her out financially now and then, give her morale support constantly, and express our deep love and pride in her all the time. Do I envy her? Not one bit. The 20’s were, are, and always will be a difficult life stage IMO. Don’t envy her a bit (except of course she does have loving parents who slip her some cash if she needs it. I didn’t have any of that!)