People who hate children

What’s that sound I hear? The incessant yammering in the background. Irrelevant to the conversation, but always there…

Yeah…Thoreau…in your fucking dreams. Try “— crazy person on the subway with “Douche” stamped on forehead”

Originally posted by MsWhatsit:

The real Curlcoat revealed?
http://movies.nytimes.com/2006/10/20/movies/20slee.html

Sounds like it’s YOUR FAMILY that Curlcoat has a hard on with. But that’s understandable, given the gene pool we’re dealing with here. It still doesn’t translate to “all children”, “all parents” or “all anything”, which seems to be the only thing Curlcoat understands. No gray…it’s either/or with no capacity for the vast majority of the life experience falling somewhere in between.

Yeah, but you keep forgetting that you don’t have a fucking job. Your complaints are meaningless (though endlessly amusing) until you learn how to carry your own ass.

I find it extraordinarily hard to believe that you could find no cite for the fact that there are non-English speaking children in regular ed classes, and that the schools are teaching on the level of the non-speakers because, despite this being Southern Calfornia and always full of Spanish speakers, there are no ESL classes. And… somehow this is a result of NCLB, as you allege. I feel that your response has adequately proven that you are making shit up and then bitching about it, which is what I suspected. Carry on.

Nonsense. She got her info from one of those emails. You get them. You know they’re true.

They really WILL make my penis larger?

If you had “friends” who are as young as my parent’s grand-children, I’d be … very surprised. :smiley:

Oh. My. God. I didn’t say shit about “all children” or “all parents” or “all anything” you fucking illiterate shithead. I’m not affiliated with curlcoat.

Goddamn.

It looked to me like Kalhoun was talking about curlcoat when mentioning the “all anything” stuff. Of course, maybe Kalhoun specifically mentioned curlcoat’s name for nothing.

It’s always better to jump the gun and get offended than to actually read for comprehension.

Uh, it was your argument, remember? I just asked how in the world it is worse to hate children than any other sub group of humans. And of course your answer is “because they are chyllldren!”. Its the same as saying all adults were children and all children become adults, yet you have no trouble hating some adults. No logic - why I am surprised?

I’ve made it through this whole thread without getting all offended. I’ve had my intelligence, my upbringing, and my genes insulted. I’ve been called a racist. I’ve tried to be rational and polite and keep insults to a minimum, but fuck that. **Kalhoun **has attacked me multiple times and childishly throughout this discussion, and I’m really tired of it. I wasn’t responding to her or even to **curlcoat **in that post. Whether she meant it to be a toward **cc **or me, I don’t care. She’s a fucking piece of shit.

Not nearly so big a piece as you are. As far as I can tell, you’ve absolutely deserved everything thrown your way by Kalhoun, or anyone else.

Selfish motivations are irrelevant. Having children IS the ONLY method by which we continue the species. Just because people have sentimental reasons for doing it doesn’t mean that. People who raise kids DESERVE respect. That doesn’t mean that people who DON’T deserve disrespect.

They are doing it for religious reasons partially. Their religion specifically provides an imperative to populate the Earth. “Be fruitful and multiply.” It’s not lying and sanctimonious to say, “I’m contributing”, my daughter really is a part of the next generation, that’s a fact on the ground not an ideological abstraction. She is a real person just like you and I are. I believe you probably contribute in other ways, whether it’s through your work or whether you are good to your friends or whatever. My contribution isn’t SUPERIOR to yours, but it IS a contribution, and the species would end if I and other parents were not taking on this responsibility. This is a case where there is one right answer and one wrong answer. The right answer is that parents are contributing to the continuation of the species. It’s simply factually correct, and not an ideological statement.

And not having enough kids causes a strain on the community as well. America’s rate of replacement is at a very good ratio. Senior citizens don’t put a strain on services UNLESS there ARE NOT ENOUGH CHILDREN TO SUPPORT THEM. Why is this so difficult to comprehend? Having fewer children doesn’t make it easier to support the Baby Boomers, it makes it HARDER. The economic system we live under is based off of sustained growth. The debt we have grows. The fewer children the greater the debt per capita. The greater the ratio of seniors to young workers the greater the strain seniors put on the economy.

You’re creating a false dichotomy. Loving children and continuing the species are not mutually exclusive. Continuation of the species is largely instinctual, but it doesn’t mean that most of us are unaware that we are continuing the species. If you asked most people they are likely aware of that aspect. It might not be ingrained in how we view sex, conception, pregnancy or birth, but it certainly is ingrained in how we raise our children to be the next generation. We raise our children to be good citizens, to care about their community and hopefully to be happy and skilled contributers. Most parents ARE aware of this, and ARE working on this intentionally. The ones who aren’t…well… God help their children.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with you not having kids. I personally think the US is in an ideal position demographically. I do not think we are overpopulating the Earth yet, but we are damn close to it, and the better we as a species can do to regulate our breeding so that we hover right at replacement rate, the better we will become. It’s pretty fucking amazing that we are even having conversations about this, it’s amazing that birth rates are stabilizing, though some countries are headed for a tragedy, such as Japan, Germany, Poland, China and other nations that are breeding WAY BELOW replacement rate.

No. No. No. You defending your hatred of children by saying “why is it worse than despising any other group of humans?” which is equating yourself with bigots, racists, and anyone else who hates a blanket group of people. I’m proud you made it that far.

And no. I have no problem hating some adults, the one’s who’ve earned it. You’ve railed against an entire subset of humanity, most of whom you’ve never met and will ever meet, in some misguided, contrarian, bitchfest that I honestly can’t understand. See the difference?

No, you don’t. You are incapable and you’re making a complete ass of yourself. You don’t care about that either. So please, continue hating people you’ve never met because a couple members of their group have bothered you. And then keep pretending there’s nothing wrong with that. God. You sadden me.

Probably because you don’t have a brain cell left that isn’t repeating CHILDREN!!! CHILDREN!!! CHILDREN!!! CHILDREN!!!

My point is that parents who say they aren’t being selfish by having children because we will need workers are full of crap, because we already have more workers than we have decent jobs. And it’s always been that way. But because parents only hear CHILDREN!!! CHILDREN!!! CHILDREN!!! they have to come up with some reason why reproducing wasn’t selfish.

How’s that? Have I insulted all their families? Have I done any name calling or labelling? Have I indicated that I hold any grudge against anyone because their beliefs and opinions are different than my own? I haven’t spewed any sort of venom at anybody here, just defended my position in the face of being told to go get some therapy, I’m abnormal, I’m sick, and mentally deficient. I realize this is the pit but 33 pages is excessive.

“I love you. Let’s have sex and make a worker.”

They ought to make that a Hallmark card.

Yes to all of the above. You have gleefully proclaimed and defended your hatred of an entire group of people. You ( along with a couple of others) have helped to generate one of the longest threads in the history of a rather hate-filled forum simply because you show signs of being a truly despicable human being.

Holy fuck. Curlcoat just let this die. If you stopped replying the thread would end. You have posted well over 200 times in this thread. You are coming across as a nut (and don’t say you don’t care what people think about you, if that were true you wouldn’t have posted over 200 times in this thread). Do yourself and everyone else a favor. Step away from the thread. Go visit some other threads. Maybe eventually people will come to think of you as more than the crazy ranting child hater. There has got to be more to you than that, right? Let this thread die.