I have this from spinal issues including severe stenosis, a herniated lumbar disk (surgery helped tremendously), nerve root impingement in my neck (surgery helped tremendously here too), and quadrilateral space syndrome on my left.
I have pain every day, tingling, numbness, clumsiness, weakness, and partial paralysis in my right foot.
It isn’t that big a deal, except when something is flaring up and I get another surgery or some other treatment. There’s a big difference between daily pain and constant pain, and there isn’t much this prevents me from doing. I think this is statistically a pretty common part of aging, and it’s a very big reason people grow lame, but there’s a lot about aging that compromises bodily things.
Interests inevitably evolve, and mine tend to keep evolving away from stuff that challenges my body these ways. Just the other day I was talking with a couple of people who are into rock climbing, and we were trying to pin down the part of the thrill that comes from doing something truly dangerous. I have not the slightest desire to climb rocks and don’t think I would if all these medical issues vanished, but I had a great time trying to understand the feelings we were figuring out together.
Depending exactly on what is going on with you, you might expect your extremities to function less well as time goes by. I get very frustrated trying to pull one coffee filter out of the box because separating layers of paper turns out to require a lot of dexterity. When Roz Chast described her father as opening packages so clumsily that they looked like a raccoon had opened them, I completely identified with it. And, yeah, it may hurt some.
Did the neurologist say that time and further testing would never gain you any treatment recommendations? Or did they simply not start any treatment this time? I’ve been on a few meds that help with this issue, though they all bring side effects. Gabapentin was a big help, and steroids can be very helpful for flare ups. Naproxen has been helpful sometimes too, as have opioids. I am not on any now. If you have tingling plus unsteadiness especially on uneven ground, might it simply not have been time yet?