The recent death of an uncle in Europe allowed letters to surface regarding the death of my mother 37 years ago. My uncle was reporting to my European grandfather (the patriarch) the situation in Canada with regards to my immediate family , the help we were getting and the prospects for the future for a single father of seven, including a newborn. I was the oldest child at 15 years of age, and I was completely unaware of any hint of irregularity with regards to medical care. It turns out that relatives were urging my father to sue, but he refused. I’m asking the medical professionals on this board to to provide any enlightenment regarding this event based on the facts that I present here. My own father absolutely refuses to discuss the details of this event.
1965
My mother enters hospital to give birth to seventh child at 3 am
Doctor arrives at 6 am. Same time nurse informs baby to be born soon
Baby born at 7:22 am
In those days fathers were not permitted in delivery room. By 9 am my father was told that he still could not see my mother because they were busy with other births.
Doctor informs my father that my mother is in critical condition at 9;30 am
Appartently bleeding began 1/2 hour after placenta was expelled. they could not stop the bleeding. Transfusion began with blood plasma because only 2 units of B- were available. However donation totalling 26 units came forward during the day.
The doctor advised that my mother had only “one unit” of fibrine in her blood wheras normal people have 400. The doctor said that 20 units of fibrine would have stopped the bleeding. Keep in mind that Dutch -English translations are involved here.
At one point my mother’s heart stopped for a little. They gave her heart massage and “cooled her down to slow down the life process”. In the meantime they fed her with oxygen under pressure to the lungs.
At 5 pm her blood condition was described as good , but my mother was described as deeply unconscious by my uncle. Apparently the doctor asked if he should wake my mother so my father could talk to her. My father said no, to let her rest. My uncle described my mothers breathing at that moment as " the air came out of her lungs with a puffing sound" which reminded him of his own mother’s deathbed experience 4 years earlier.
Things were looking up and my father was advised to go home. Hoever he got a call from the hospital 30 minutes later and advised to return immediately. My mother died at 5:50 pm.
According to my uncle an autopsy was ordered exposing some “irregularities that weren’t too good”. He was quite vague, but did make reference to oxygen found in her stomach.
If any doctor here can shed some light based on the info provided I would sure appreciate it. My sister claims that several years later the family doctor asked not to be our doctor anymore because of the emotional baggage surrounding this event.