There’s no need to resort to such extremes. In judging others, I am agitated with irresponsable individuals who neglect their parental duties in pursuit of a recreational high. I have sympathy for addiction, depression, and pain, but morally speaking these aren’t sufficient excuses.
The thing about Max is I can imagine him delivering his above screed word-for-word to a clearly uncomfortable waitress as she’s just trying to finish getting his order so she can serve other customers.
That doesn’t follow at all. There very often isn’t a single answer to that question. And then you now have to make a decision between two things that are morally equivalent. You thus can’t use morality to decide.
And this isn’t merely an intellectual exercise. This sort of thinking is exactly what leads to scrupulosity. People get paralyzed not knowing what the morally correct option is. Or they beat themselves up because they inevitably don’t choose the most moral option.
Not every decision is a moral one. There’s a reason why the term amoral exists, and doesn’t mean immoral.
With all due respect, neutral is a moral value. When making a decision between two alternatives of equal moral value, the decision is morally neutral. Choosing one flavor of ice cream over another based on my greater desire for the one flavor is positive, not neutral, because I personally recognize a duty to satisfy desires. All other things equal, it is better for me to choose the flavor I like more.
Neutral does not mean amoral. Amoral means disregard for morality. My opinion of whether something is legally valid or not is amoral. That doesn’t mean I think all laws have equal moral value, it means I think legal validity of law is independent of moral value. We should strive to make laws reflect morality but sometimes that doesn’t work out. (See Nazi thread, linked earlier.) Contrary to Johanna’s implication, I don’t identify law with morality itself.