I just spent the last 2 hours of my life reading every post in this thread, and I gotta tell ya, I have a headache.
First of all, I have no idea what some of the racist terms quoted mean. I’ve never even heard the terms “blue gum” or “high yella.” Maybe it’s because I grew up in a virtually microscopic town in Nebraska where one, count them ONE, black family (of 5) lived. I was friends with two of the three of the black kids who went to my school. The exception was the youngest son…not because he was black, but because he was an asshat. Notice I didn’t say “black asshat.”
Not everyone where I grew up was white. There’s a college in the town that I come from and we had people of all different shades who came to go to school and live there. From black to lily white to “red” (are these sunburned people?) to “yellow” (although I’ve never seen a yellow person unless you count the people with liver cancer who had to visit the doctor that I used to work for…there’s a word for yellow people, it’s jaundiced, k?). There were people who spoke different languages, their native languages. There were migrant workers who would come to help harvest and detassle and earn a living.
There were many exchange students in my school. Two of them were from Spain, one was named Jose and the other was named Jesus. We used to call them “Hose-A” and “Hose-B.” They didn’t get their undies in a bunch about it. You know why? Because it was a JOKE. A light-hearted joke. Not a nasty racial slur or a way to single them out so they could get their asses kicked without any of the white kids feeling bad. A way of making them one of the crowd, a really, really funny joke when you were 16 and in a strange country hanging out with strange people who didn’t know a Jose from a Jesus.
I lived in that town from the time I was 7 until I was 18. Never once was there a racial attack. I never heard about racism or “tolerance for the differently colored” unless I was watching TV until I moved to the “big city.”
As far as the whole “white trash” thing goes…who the hell cares? I mean really…aren’t there more important things to worry about? Poverty, world hunger, the state of affairs of the environment, endangered species, child abuse, homeless pets? ANYTHING!!! :smack:
I don’t use racial slurs.
I don’t use the “N” word. I’ve never met an “N.” There’s no such goddamned thing as one. So people who use that word, and people who invented that word aren’t much more than 5 year olds fighting over who’s daddy could beat up someone else’s daddy. “I’m better than you because I’m white and you’re not.” Puh-lease!
“White trash” isn’t offensive to me. I’ve never met a piece of “white trash.” The word is stupid. It’s a way of someone with money and “class” trying to make themselves feel like they can look down their nose on someone who is less fortunate and less educated than they are. All while showing everyone within the sound of their voice that they are a completely classless moron who carries all of their taste in their mouth.
Several people I grew up with came from families that had lost their sprawling farms or ranches to the bank and had to move into a trailer with their moms and dads and brothers and sisters. Does that make them trailer trash or white trash? Or both? I’ll tell you what they were…they were BROKE.
In my opinion, all of those words are stupid. Keep the hate speech rule, lose the hate speech rule. I honestly don’t give a damn. If someone calls you a name that hurts your feelings, go talk to your mom or dad or friends or kids. Better yet, go talk to your grandparents or great grandparents. I bet THEY had to deal with a hell of a lot more hate speech and predjudice and injustice than you have. With any luck, Darwin was right and the assholes who use language like that will die out eventually through survival of the fittest.
Maybe I don’t understand the finer points of this argument because I’m a dumb redneck from Nebraska (red neck, white socks, and Blue Ribbon beer).
Can’t we all just get along?