Well; I’d first like to say that this has been a hell of a read and while it’s certainly been interesting, I feel bad for those that were stirred by the things which have been said. Now for the contradiction, I might be pouring some fuel into the fire. I hope I’m not, I don’t believe I am; curiosity and interest in the subject is marching me along. So; if for some reason the discussion turns south once more after my post, you have my most sincere apologies.
I’d also like to give some anecdotal information about myself, perhaps it’ll shed a bit of light into the argument.
I didn’t choose to be straight. For the heterosexuals out there, Im sure this is a baffling statement; thus, I’ll elaborate. You could describe me millions of ways, depending on your personal thoughts and views but I’ll offer some choice descriptions: Artsy, Intellectual, Girly, Effiminate, Feminime, Queer. In the past I tryed my hardest to possess more than a remote physical attraction to men, thinking that because of my characteristics, only another man would want my company for any long term. Luckily, I’ve found a wonderful woman who appreciates my girlishness; who in fact nurtures who I am and allows me a certain safety in being myself. I’ve never, repeat NEVER been romantically attracted to men. I find nothing desirable emotionally in what one would call masculinity, and my purely sexual desires towards men stops at the point where they begin to look much beyond androgeny. As a young child (if memory serves, we’re talking actual preschool here) I played doctor with members of both sexes. I can’t tell you exactly how I felt about that, who I preferred; I just know the fact of it. This brings me to my actual thoughts (which, I must note based on the rather heated displays previously are ONLY based on my personal experiances and observations.)
Both gender identification and sexuality are largely predetermined (either genitically or chemically, Im not debating that. I’d like to know, but that’ll be off in the future Im sure.), yet slightly influenced by a huge clump of factors which I’ll be forced to call environment. In my case; I wouldn’t have been able to become comfortable with who I am, perhaps I wouldn’t be who I am if I were staunchly thrown into a military family and beaten when I requested to grow out my hair and a better facial moisturizer (not to mention a nice female uniform ;p). Furthermore, I see bisexuality (on a pure physical/sexual front) just being good common sense. There’s nothing wrong with having a sensually good time, in my eyes. Homosexuality? Without even looking at the other species of our planet, I feel as if this is an obvious step on the evolutionary ladder. We’re not trying to outmate all the other mammals anymore, we are in fact the dominant species. That two people who under most circumstances will NOT produce offspring can still live happily and productively makes me worry that much less about a future of overcrowding. A note for all of those who are religious and rely on choice as a method to condemn those who don’t follow your oh so holy law: Do you still believe in the tooth fairy too? I’m sure Jesus was a great guy, but how do you know everything you read is the truth? You can’t even all agree with eachother, let alone explain to anyone else how the vast majority of it makes a shred of sense. If people aren’t hurting eachother and they’re happy, just let them be.