As a man, anally penetrating another man, 0
As a man, being anally penetrated by another man, 0
As a man, getting oral sex from another man, 0
As a man, giving oral sex to another man, 0
As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman, 10
As a man, anally penetrating a woman, 10
As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on, 0
As a man, getting oral sex from a woman, 5
As a man, giving oral sex to a woman, 10
oops; straight male
Gay male.
01 As a man, anally penetrating another man,
01 As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
10+ As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
05 As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
00 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
00 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
00 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
00 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
–10 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
00 As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on,
00 As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man,
01 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man,
00 As a woman, getting oral sex from a man,
01 As a woman, giving oral sex to a man,
00 As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on,
00 As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
00 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
00 As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman,
00 As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman.
By the way, you left out a whole lot of fun things.
Male, rather relentlessly hetero. Well, more accurately, I’m totally attracted to women. (Okay, put me in an all male environment with no women around for several months, and I’ll start noticing cute asses. 
Not really a concern, anymore.) I have trouble, emotionally, understanding why women actually want anything to do with us.
0 - As a man, anally penetrating another man,
0 - As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
1 - As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
0 - As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
8 - As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
9 - As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
7 - As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
7 - As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
10 - As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
I really can’t say I ever fantasize about myself in the role of a woman. While I do have some fantasies focusing on the female viewpoint, it’s not me, but I’m either watching, or directing, the action.
<hijack>
The yardarm, if I’m not mixing up my sailing terms completely, is not very convenient for tying someone up to, if’n you want access to their body. Most properly, it is the end of the spars on a square-rigged ship, supporting the sail.
The capstan would be soo much better. 
</hijack>
I must be wired strangely. My sexual fantasies don’t tend to include any of those things!
As a man, XXXXXX another man
ZERO !
8 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
10 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
0 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
9 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
6 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman (depends on the woman too)
Well, I don’t know about other guys, but I tend to find the idea of male-male sex kind of repugnant, especially when it would involve me. I’m not being homophobic- it’s not my business at all what other people do in private, but I find the idea unappealing and sexually unarousing to an extreme. And having it forced upon me… well, that’s a particularly unpleasant thought.
That’s not to say that the idea of threesomes, etc… involving one woman and two men isn’t appealing, but the fantasies never have the men doing anything to each other- just to the woman. At least for me, it’s the idea that you get to watch and participate at the same time. That, and the naughtiness/kink factor are exciting as well.
Straight Male
As a man, anally penetrating another man, 0
As a man, being anally penetrated by another man, 0
As a man, getting oral sex from another man, 0
As a man, giving oral sex to another man, 0
As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman, 10
As a man, anally penetrating a woman, 2
As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on, 0
As a man, getting oral sex from a woman, 10
As a man, giving oral sex to a woman, 9
As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on, 0
As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man, 0
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man, 0
As a woman, getting oral sex from a man, 0
As a woman, giving oral sex to a man, 0
As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on, 1
As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on, 0
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on, 2
As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman, 3
As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman. 6
I find this rather intriguing, though I’m getting a bit mixed up, what with the sex stuff.
I’m 8-9 on everything, except for receiving and performing oral sex, which are off the scale provided. (Darn limited scale!) I am a bisexual female who fantasizes about being male about 30% of the time.
Straight male, and I rarely fantasize about anything this straightforward.
0 Anything involving me and another guy
0 Anything that actually hurts someone
5 Most of what you have listed for mf
10 Seducing, or exciting a woman to do what she would otherwise never consider (whether it is anything listed, threesome, bondage, etc.)
Same here. My fantasies involve some convoluted stories.
Hetero male. 0 means no interest and 10 means IAMLAMF!!!
As a man, anally penetrating another man
As a man, getting oral sex from another man
As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man,
As a woman, getting oral sex from a man,
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on
0 - never cross my mind.
As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
These are 2 or 3, but…well, let’s just say there’s little reason to fantasize about these events.
As a man, getting oral sex from a woman
Oh, about a 5 or 6
As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man,
As a woman, giving oral sex to a man,
As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on,
As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman,
As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman.
WOO-HOO!! All 10’s. Some even go up to 11
Oh, let’s see. Time for everyone to know I’m not the crazy animal I pretend to be. Straight male, and here we go.
0 As a man, anally penetrating another man,
2 As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
1 As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
2 As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
8 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
9 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
4 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
6 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
6 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
I reserve the perfect 10 score for only my wildest fantasies, most of them involving ninjas and oil. Lots of oil.
~S&S
Since I’m pushing 40 now, I’ll rank “Picking up new Ducati/Ferrari from the dealer” a solid 9. After taking a nap, I’ll think about the other ones. After dinner and a beer. Or two.
But stay the hell away from my anus. Unless your a Ducati or Ferrari seat.
I can honestly say that there’s **nothing **that can happen between two men that I’ve never fantasized about. As a teenager, I invented fantasies about things that I never dreamed people actually did, until I learned differently years later.
But there always has to be a plot, sometimes so convoluted that we never get around to actually doing anything.
Is the deciding factor commonality or strangeness? I can think of a few fantasies that are very unusual for me, but I wouldn’t feel strange for having them. I just rarely get around to having those particular fantasies.
Anyhoo, given that the factor is commonality:
Bisexual male
As a man, anally penetrating another man: 1
As a man, being anally penetrated by another man: 0
As a man, getting oral sex from another man: 3
As a man, giving oral sex to another man: 4
As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman: 8
As a man, anally penetrating a woman: 1
As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on: 0
As a man, getting oral sex from a woman: 10
As a man, giving oral sex to a woman: 7
As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on: 0
As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man: 0
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man: 1
As a woman, getting oral sex from a man: 1
As a woman, giving oral sex to a man: 3
As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on: 0
As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on: 0
As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on: 0
As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman: 2
As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman: 2
Was that a Spinal Tap reference?
Heterosexual male
0 As a man, anally penetrating another man,
0 As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
0 As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
0 As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
10 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
3 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
2 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
10 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
6 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
0 As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on,
0 As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man,
0 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man,
0 As a woman, getting oral sex from a man,
0 As a woman, giving oral sex to a man,
1 As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on,
0 As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
1 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
3 As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman,
2 As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman.
4 As a man, anally penetrating another man,
5 As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
1 As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
3 As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
9 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
7 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
4 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
4 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
8 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
0 As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on,
4 As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man,
5 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man,
5 As a woman, getting oral sex from a man,
4 As a woman, giving oral sex to a man,
0 As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on,
0 As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
0 As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
4 As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman,
6 As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman.
Frankly these only scratch the surface.
male, hetero
0 As a man, anally penetrating another man,
0 As a man, being anally penetrated by another man,
0 As a man, getting oral sex from another man,
0 As a man, giving oral sex to another man,
10 As a man, vaginally penetrating a woman,
0 As a man, anally penetrating a woman,
0 As a man, being anally penetrated by woman with a strap on,
10 As a man, getting oral sex from a woman,
10 As a man, giving oral sex to a woman,
n/a As a woman, anally penetrating a man using a strap on,
n/a As a woman, being anally penetrated by a man,
n/a As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a man,
n/a As a woman, getting oral sex from a man,
n/a As a woman, giving oral sex to a man,
n/a As a woman, analy penetrating a woman using a strap on,
n/a As a woman, being analy penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
n/a As a woman, being vaginally penetrated by a woman using a strap on,
n/a As a woman, getting oral sex from a woman,
n/a As a woman, giving oral sex to a woman.