But here’s where your argument falls down, I think. Because really what it seems to me you’re saying is, “Do unto others as I think He taught you to do”. Throughout history, and even today, people have used the bible, and even the words of Jesus as portrayed in the gospels, to support all sorts of “bad” things, from slavery, to genocide, to forced conversion, to religious persecution, to gay bashing. Now, it’s possible some of these people are just using Jesus and the bible as a rationalization, but it strains credibility to assume they all were. Undoubtedly, at least some of the people who did and do these things believe that they are living according to the way God and Jesus want them to live.
And just like you’ve had your own experiences to convince you that God is loving and that Jesus’s message was one of fair-play, justice tempered by mercy, etc., and that Gaudere has had her own experiences that led her to soft atheism, these people have had experiences to convince them that Jesus is ok with or even wants them to persecute people of a different faith, or deny rights to gay people, or do all sorts of terrible things. Their experiences lead them to those beliefs just as your experiences lead you to yours.
Like Lincoln said in his second inaugural, about both the Union and Confederacy:
If the validity of your beliefs are due to the experiences leading you to them, then don’t those people who believe that Jesus’s message condones intolerance because their experiences have led them to that, have beliefs of equal validity?
The difference, of course, is that your beliefs are much kinder, much more humane, and much more tolerable from a sense of basic decency than theirs, and that is an important difference, and that, I think, is why you are so well liked and respected, both on this board and elsewhere. I don’t want to equivocate too far, and I admit, I would much rather live in a world ruled by your sense of ethics than one ruled by Jerry Fallwell’s.
However, what I think is a weakness of yours, and the weakness of liberal Christianity in general, is what Bruce Bawer terms, “the inability to recognize evil”. There is a need, I think, for Christians, especially those Christians who deliver a message of God’s univeral love, to recognize that Christianity is two sided…and that, just as there is an authentic Christian message of love and brotherhood, there exists another, equally authentic, Christian message of hatred and intolerance. It exists in Christianity, and is derived from Christian teachings, and the message of intolerance has as good a pedigree as the message of tolerance.