I’ve got a serious thing for tall skinny rocker guys with goatees. That’s my dream boy.
Musicians of any variety, guitar players a plus, bassists even better (my first everything was a bassist and vocalist, and I later had a one-night-stand with the guy who became the bassist in his band when he switched to vocals. Like 6 months after we broke up though. ) I’m a singer/songwriter/guitarist, so I absolutely adore guys who understand my music passion.
Alternative/punk-ish/emo-ish guys, with a couple of piercings or tattoos. ::drool::
Goatees. Did I mention goatees? I loove goatees.
As far as actions go, my ears are one of my biggest erogenous zones, but just touching them with fingers doesn’t work. But one warm breath and I melt. Nibble and I’m a puddle at your feet.
And a guy must must must use his mouth. I love kissing and cannot do without it, and I’m a very orally fixated person so I always want to put my lips and tongue all over a guy, so he should be willing to do the same to me.
Also probably should have mentioned I have a few submission fantasies that I’ve never had the chance to explore. :o The whole blindfolding, tied-up, spanking thing. Mmm.
Spanking
hair pulling
neck, shoulder, back massage (I give great “hand”)
gothic/S&M clothing
light biting
role-playing
naughty talk
long haired men (YUM)
men with goatees (not Satanic looking or ZZTop full on beards but barely there, scruffy)
rough play
Ahem, more than enough about me…
Well I guess there are quite a few of us who think women with glasses are sexy. Count me in also on being attracted to women of Far East descent - must be something about the eyes and the straight dark hair. Mercy. And has nobody mentioned amputees yet (okay so maybe it’s not that common a fetish but at least one Doper is turned on by that sort of thing). None of these are dealbreakers for me though.
FWIW I’m half Canadian, half German (PA Dutch - same thing) and have a New England accent. Oh and I frequently wear sweatpants
That aside, I don’t really have much to add. It’s been an area of strange academic interest to me, trying to figure out exactly what it is about some people that I find attractive, because most of the time the women that guys generally hold up as being gorgeous, I find pretty ordinary. I think it’s at least partly to do with the outermost edges of the eyes. Possibly I could perform some kind of empirical study, but when I think about what that would actually involve… people might think I was a stalker. In fact, were I to do that, maybe I would be.
Shaved heads - on the right guy, they look sexy as hell. Plus they feel lovely, all fuzzy and velvety when you stroke 'em.
Eyebrow piercings - don’t know why, not all that bothered by other kind of piercings.
Strong forearms - with just the right amount of muscle on them, slighty tanned, just enough hair to be masculine without crossing over into “gorilla-like”, just glimpsed from a rolled-up shirt sleeve. If it’s a particulary nice forearm, it’s very hard to resist the temptation to lick 'em.
The right kind of tattoos - the wrong kind being coloured (IMO, they just look a bit tacky); of cartoon characters (please, how old are you?!); of an ex-girlfriend (for obvious reasons); or any kind of thug-style “England Forever” or “British Bulldog” design (not into xenophobes, thanks). But a plain black Celtic or Maori design, or even better, one you’ve designed yourself - well, grrrrr…
As far as non-physical attributes go, a wickedly dry, sarcastic sense of humour, and “Oh my God, you’re so brainy it’s actually intimidating” intelligence make me melt.
Okay, I admit this is a little strange. But I guess this is what fetishes are all about.
See, there is this chair in my house. It’s an old office chair, it rolls, it’s red. And it is stuck at this certain height that positions Mr. Toes just so . . . and the bars on the bottom are just the right curvature to wrap my feet around (plus they are cold metal) . . . and the back of the chair has the best corners for gripping . . .
Let’s just say that everytime I see that chair I want to lick it.
Similarly, I always notice a guys legs. I luuuuv that little quad seperation a guy get over his knees if he’s got good legs. And I always notice calves on a guys. (
But I also love the emaciated rocker boys who have tats and no ass. I adore the way the pants of really skinny guys hang straight down in the back…
Also, really arrogant philosophy majors who love to debate.
And cute little charismatic short guys always knock me off my feet. Lately , I’m developing a thing for Asian guys too.
Ok, they’re not really fetishes but little things that totally turn me on…
(I guess closer to a fetish would be tottering around naked in those 6-inch Bettie Page platform pumps and cheap slutty lingerie. Not a requirement but if a guy doesn’t think that’s sexy, we probably won’t mesh…)
Glasses are sexy, as long as they’re not extremely thick glasses like the ones I have to wear.
I’m instantly attracted to people with beautiful hands. Bonus points if they gesture a lot.
Ears. I have this weird thing about ears and napes of necks. You ever stood behind someone with a beautiful neck and contemplated doing things to them that are not advisable on random strangers?
I also think men with really long eyelashes are hot.
I have a strong lipstick fetish. I love watching a woman apply it, and especially love kissing her when she’s wearing it. The thicker, creamier, and more sticky it is, the better.
) I’m a singer/songwriter/guitarist, so I absolutely adore guys who understand my music passion.
