We decided to take the advice from this thread of inviting HIM to a Boy’s Night Out… not to a strip club or bar, but to a tame restaurant for dinner on a Sunday evening. Just 3 boys and dinner. Either the whipped husband will refuse, and the problem is solved, or he will stand up to his wife and he will join us for mild festivities of a boys night out … or so we thought.
At first, he said he could not go. A few hours later, he said he could make it. We were shocked that his wife “allowed” him to go anywhere without her.
So, I pull up to the restaurant and … lo and behold … he is there … outside … at Boy’s Night Out … WITH HIS FREAKING WIFE! :mad:
She is seated outside at the Starbucks next door. He is going to go into the restaurant with us boys while she sits outside allegedly doing some homework for her Masters program.
So, we are in the restaurant eating dinner and having some guy talk. Then, EXACTLY ONE HOUR later… and I mean EXACTLY, she comes walking into the restaurant, takes a seat with the boys, and injects herself in the conversation. I guess Boy’s Night Out to her meant her husband was allowed to go into a restaurant and hang out for ONE HOUR while she SAT OUTSIDE with her friggin’ alarm clock. :smack:
We talked for a little while longer, then we wrapped it up and left.
On the way out, they tried to “connect” with me conversationally since things have been very quiet between all of us since the cabin trip. When we were almost parted, they invited me to their house for the evening. I politely refused.
They left saying in a chipper voice, “Hey, don’t be a stranger.” I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there.
After we all left the restaurant, I went and picked up my wife. We met our friends, the other couple, at a different restaurant for dessert where we ripped on this other woman mercilessly.
I really feel sorry for the guy, but I think that was our one last good faith effort to be friends with them.