Prayers that Actually Work

Edlyn makes a statement of faith. It makes no logical sense.

It is quickly shown that it is nonsense.

Libertarian maintains that it is not nonsense.

You ask Libertarian for an explanation.

He doesn’t understand the thing you want explained.

You don’t understand the explanation that he gives you.

He tries again, although he still doesn’t understand.

You don’t understand the thing again.

I read it all.

I don’t understand it either.

I do pray, though.

I even pray for understanding.

I still don’t understand.

I don’t think that is because my prayers are not answered.

I think the answer is that I don’t understand.

I have an insight.

Understanding isn’t part of it.

You just don’t get it, because “getting it” isn’t what it is.

God won’t make you love Him, and you can’t stop Him from loving you. He won’t make you go to hell, but you can’t make Him stop you from going there on your own.

Dawson died. Dawson’s mother found his spirit. She says God showed her that Dawson lives. It’s a miracle. The explanation doesn’t make sense.

If you want to understand, that will take another miracle.

It isn’t logical.

There is no proof. And it will never make sense. But it might be that it is not nonsense.

Tris

“The wicked leader is he who the people despise. The good leader is he who the people revere. The great leader is he who the people say, ‘We did it ourselves.’” ~ Lao Tzu ~

So, I’m supposed to accepts Libertarian’s ramblings because they might make sense? Frankly, I demand a better standard of proof out of small children.

I pray that I may be obediant to God’s word and not to my own freewill. I pray that I may be faithful to God. I pray that I may better understand God’s word so that the above may be accomplished. I pray that God’s will be done.

I pray that my family may come to know God and be saved.

I pray for God’s help and guidance in all matters.

I include in my prayers the sentiment ‘If it be your will’

I’m still relatively new to this but I work according to this simple principle that he taught me:

***If we ask anything, according to his will, he hears us. *** *1 John 14 *

All I can say is that it’s working for me so far… he is a loving and faithful God to me.

And you get the same results from praying to your god as you would if you were praying to a brick wall, providing that you believed the brick wall had the same vague-mystical powers you ascribe to your god.
It does me no good that you believe “in your heart” that your prayer has been answered for two reasons:

  1. I have no way of knowing what is in your heart.
  2. You have shown that ANY answer(good, bad, or indifferent) would be acceptable to you, because you believe that ALL results come from your god.

Try this analogy. A mother comes up to you and says that her son is the smartest person on Earth(outside of Uncle Cecil, of course :)), because he gets a perfect score on any test she gives him. You then find out that she is homeschooling him, and that when he is tested, she will accept any answer, or even no answer, to any question she gives him because she believes that he is the smartest person in the world, and therefore his answer MUST be correct!

Czar

I don’t think you’re unenlightened. I don’t think you (or any other atheist) is in any way whatsoever inferior to me, either in worth or intellect.

I do want to communicate with you and others. So I’ve prepared a Table of Definitions for you and others who might be unfamiliar with the teachings of Jesus.

Please feel free to ask me to add any terms you don’t understand. When you do, you can give me the definitions of the terms as you understand them to help me understand you as well. I’ve started it with the terms “life” and “death”.

Myrr21

No! Your’re not! You’re “supposed” to accept whatever you choose to, and reject the rest. As it happens, that is exactly what you (and I, and we all) do.

“I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children. Yes, Father, for this was your good pleasure.” — Jesus

Tris

Point taken. Thank you.

Tracer

So, your answer was to deny my request. Or was it not? Or may both A and Not A be true?

Remarkable.

If I understand you correctly, when I petition, and the answer is no, then I have not been answered; but when I make no petition whatsoever, then what happens is the answer to the petition I never made? Was I to ignore Jab’s dependent clause, “when you ask”?

Lib, may I suggest that you use the terms “eternal life” and “eternal death” to commuinicate the Christian terms? It sounds weird (and it’s confusing) to hear you say “He died, so he’s alive”, whereas “He died, now he’s got eternal life” at least communicates the concept you’re trying to get across.

FEnris

In a sense, you are right in what you say. Only the Lord God and I know what is truly ‘in my heart’ and I am content with that. Ultimately, that’s the key relationship anyway… between me and him.

In terms of God’s answers, I actually pray that his will should be done… whatever that is. That’s the whole point. When I became a Christain, I became a new life, centred on the Lord’s will and not on my own.

What I believe now is that it is God’s will that must be done. I certainly didn’t believe that a few years ago. The focus is was definitely on me and what I wanted!

I guess that if I had prayed before becoming a Christian, I would have tended to ask for specific things that I wanted:
Dear God, let me win the lottery, let me double my sales, let my son pass his exams etc.

My approach now is somewhat different:

Dear God, if it is your will then show me how to use the money that I have wisely, help me to use my business to achieve your goals, let your spirit fall upon my son and teach him how to deal with the pressures of exams and their outcomes.

For example, my father is not a Christian. I love him dearly. He has been diagnosed with cancer. I do not want him to die and would miss him terribly. At the moment, the prognosis is positive.

My prayers are that the Lord Jesus will speak to my father, through the Holy Spirit, and that he will enter into a relationship with him. I know that I will never be able to convince Dad to become a Christain through persuasive arguement… it dooesn’t work like that. And so I pray for it.

Secondly, I pray that the Lord will give my father the strength of character to respond positively when the Holy Spirit moves. He is in his 70s and it would be very easy to ignore the Spirit’s messages after a life-time of not responding to them. * ‘Those that have eyes shall see and those that have ears shall hear.’* I didn’t respond positively until I was in my late 40s. Spiritually, I had been blind and deaf. The whole Christain message was alien to me until I responded and now that I can see and hear, it gets clearer every day. A relationship with Jesus will help my father to deal with his situation.

Thirdly, I pray that my father will not suffer pain unnecessarily. Physical death is inevitable for us all and I ask for the Lord’s mercy at the end. I also ask that my father will be allowed face his illness with dignity. My biggest prayer though, is that it will be with Jesus at his side as he faces the tribulations of the valley of death.

As a non-Christian I would find most of this difficult to swallow… I was one for a long time.

I have met the Lord and he has responded to my prayers… that’s how I know. There are some that I have been praying patiently for years and I’m still waiting. Others have been responded to more quickly. It is based on his will, not mine and I must be patient.

You will only know for yourself if you respond positively when you meet him. I pray for that response (hope that doesn’t offend you).

Edlyn I think what you’re saying is that the OP should include some kind of “in general” or “on average” clause, and that it should be limited to a particular person. Didn’t the phrase “more often than would be expected from chance” mean anything to you.

If you don’t like the OP as I restated it, fine, restate it yourself.

Then God obviously does not listen to prayers. His will be done anyway, so what’s the point of leaving the speakerphone on with a few million people telling him to do what he’s already going to do?

Unless God gets off on that sorta thing…

See, them’s the kinda prayers that really yank my chain.

There are very few things on this planet more condescending than being prayed for. You can go talk to the air if you want–and it’s your right to say whatever you want–but it seems to me that if the man ain’t Christian, it’s cause he doesn’t want to be. I know I’ve been prayed for by family, and it just gives me the willies.

Let me defend Lib really quickly. What he is trying to say is what all Christians believe. This life, our physical life, is only temporary. Our souls, our eternal life, are encapsulated in our physical bodies and when we physically die, our eternal life is “freed.”

Bnorton, you asked: When God is petitioned in prayer, does he grant the prayer’s specific wishes more often than would be expected from chance?

The answer is yes but the way God answers our prayers can almost always be explained rationally thus making it seem as though it would have happened anyway.

For comparison’s sake, look at the Biblical prophecies concerning the Jewish Diaspora and the regathering of Israel. These prophecies were written thousands of years ago but are being fulfilled as we speak. Now, these events can rationally be explained as events in the natural course of history. The Jews did, after all, go through the Holocaust and needed a state for self-defense. And those who persecuted the Jews in foreign lands did not persecute the Jews to force them back to their homeland but to get rid of them. There are so many events that are historically known about the regathering that we can easily say that this is history, that’s all. However, this would ignore God’s role in history. All these events have been foretold in the OT but, because such a long time has passed since the prophecies were written, the prophecies are just ignored.

When God answers our prayers it is usually in the same way. Your prayers may not be answered instantly but they will be answered in due time. And it is then your responsibility to recognize what happened and thank God. When I have prayed and not received what I asked for, I’ve always learned something in the process. Usually, what I ask for is a selfish request and oftentimes is not according to His will.

I do have an example of prayer working but I do not have all the specific names and dates. I will get back with that info in another post. This story takes place in Egypt after the Arab Conquest. Currently, Egypt’s population is around 90-95% Moslem and 5-10% Coptic Orthodox Christian. The Coptic Church has been heavily persecuted since the conquest. It boast to having a million martyrs.

The leader of Egypt at the time of this story was El Mo’az el Din Allah el Fatimi (El Mo’az). He confronted the Pope of the Coptic Church (do not know his name but will post it later) and told him something along the lines of “Your religion tells you that if you have faith the size of a mustard seed and you tell a mountain to move it will move.” He told the Pope that the Christians in Egypt will be killed/enslaved if they do not make a particular mountain move.

The Pope prayed and God told him to find a man named Simon (I think he was an embedder) who will lead the Christians. The Pope finds this Simon and the Christian’s in Egypt fasted and prayed for three days. At the deadline, the Chistians said “Kyrie Eleison” (Lord have mercy) 40 times and the mountain moved (jumped) three times. El Mo’az told them to stop and did not massacre them as he threatened. Simon disappeared after this (it is assumed he did not want to receive any glory for this) and El Mo’az coverted to Christianity and became a monk.

The Moslems who are in power deny this story and in their textbooks it say that El Mo’az went crazy and “ran to the desert.”

I think very few scientific tests have been done on the mountain but the Coptic Church (which is a very poor church) wants scientists to come because they will only prove the story to be true. The mountain, which is somewhat of a landmark in Egypt and I have personally seen, does not go into the ground like most mountains but, rather, seems to be sitting on the ground.

I don’t expect any skeptics to believe this story at face value. One of the most popular explanations against this event being a miracle is that an earthquake caused the movement. Even so, I think the timing is impeccable.

The lesson to be learned is that for the bigger things you ask from God the more faith you must show Him, thus the fasting and praying for three days (the prayer part is very similar to the story of the Ninevites in Jonah who basically did the same thing so God could spare them His wrath). If they had showed God a weak demonstration of faith He might not have answered them, but, since they did show their faith by sacrificing and praying when it seemed the most hopeless, God came through.

So the Wacky Children’s Illustrated–But In No Way Substantiated–Bible Hour is evidence, huh?

I see what you mean… however, let me give you an example. I would like my father to become a Christian and so I pray…

Lord, I know that what I’m asking for is in accordance with Your will because You have said You want ‘All men to be saved, and to come to a knowledge of the truth’

In this way I am praying for God’s will. However, my father could choose to ignore the Lord God and his offer of eternal life… and so I pray for it.

**See, them’s the kinda prayers that really yank my chain.
There are very few things on this planet more condescending than being prayed for. You can go talk to the air if you want–and it’s your right to say whatever you want–but it seems to me that if the man ain’t Christian, it’s cause he doesn’t want to be. I know I’ve been prayed for by family, and it just gives me the willies.
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It is true that my father may have chosen to not be a Christian. However, it is perfectly possible to be a non-Christian because of other reasons… like you just can’t see it yet or you have ignored or dismissed the approaches of the Holy Spirit without realising who it was or how important it was.

When I first saw it after 40+ years, I couldn’t believe that I’d missed it for so long… it was now so obvious to me and becomes more obvious by the day. You wouldn’t believe how ignorant I was (still am to a large extent) of something so critical… and I can’t use excuses like a poor education or lack of loving parents/family or etc.etc. fact is, I just couldn’t see it and then… wham!

I truly do not mean to be disrespectful when I pray for non-Christians. I respect everyone’s right to choose their own path, but as a Christian I am charged to pray for everyone’s salvation. It is God’s will that I do.

Please don’t be harsh on your family if they pray for you. It’s probably because they love you.

Fenris

An excellent suggestion! Thank you!

Which still doesn’t answer me. If your father being Christian or not is part of the plan, then prayer serves exactly zero use, as the result is already determined. If it’s not part of the plan, then either there is no plan, or it’s his choice–and one you should respect enough to leave well enough alone. So no matter what the case, your prayer is worth only the air it’s carried upon.

Ok, I’ll grant you that if you live in an area where Christianity is nearly non-existant.

However, I’m guessing that that’s not the case. I’m sure your father has had a bible or fourty shoved his way plenty of times, and probably notices the mysterious steepled buildings on the side of the road, and probably knows what all those people are doing out on Sunday. So unless your father is a complete ignoramus–and I wouldn’t assume that–he knows what Christianity is, and where he could go to sign the dotted line. If he isn’t Christian by now, I’d call that a choice (but maybe “choice” means something different in divine lingo).

Well, God’s will is pretty warped, then, if you’re required to ask that a person’s choice be removed from them.

No, it’s because they’re rabidly Christian and tell my mother to her face that my brother and I are going to hell, with her carrying the handbasket.

They send me birthday cards and visit every so often because they love me.

Impossible. Contradictions do not exist.

I’m afraid I’m going to have to ask for a translation here.

How about, instead of making a (in my POV) rude and basically worthless comment, explain why this story is bunk? I know it’s alot easier to poke fun at the Bible, but you’re adding nothing to the discussion.

Oh, and walor our prayers are with you. :slight_smile:

**Mambo[/], every culture has it mythology. This happens to be yours.

Well, I thought it was fairly self-explanatory–there isn’t even anything there to debunk. All the evidence for this consisted of “some local people say the mountain looks kinda funny.” Interesting story, but it doesn’t add anything to the table.

Libertarian wrote:

Okay, fair enough. “Answering” your prayers does not necessarily mean granting the requests you made in you prayers. “Answering” a prayer means, if I am to assume (as you seem to be) that “answering” means the same thing it does in normal conversation, that when you pray (i.e. talk to God) that God responds. (NOTE: I can’t be sure this is precisely what you mean by “answering” a prayer, though, because the Table of Definitions you posted a link to only contains definitions for “life” and “death.”)

If that is the case, then what happens when someone prays and hears nothing from God? What if the person praying meets every standard you could possibly throw out for being “one of the faithful,” and yet does not hear God responding to his/her prayers? Would you then revise your opinion, and say that God does not always answer the prayers of the faithful? Or would you just say, “He or she must not have been one of the faithful, because he/she couldn’t hear God’s answer” … i.e. one of the pre-requisites for being one of “the faithful” is that you must be able to hear or otherwise receive God’s response to each and every prayer you make?

I am holding you to your word here, when you said, “He [God] always answers the prayers of the faithful.” If a faithful person prayed and got no response, then based on that sentence, what would you conclude? (And just to let you know up front, I have a serious problem with an answer like, “God did respond to the prayer, but it was in a manner too subtle for the faithful person to notice.” What’s the difference between an undetectable response and no response at all?)