Prevent me from becoming the evil that spawned me!

Any anti-theists out there?

This may be treading on GD territory, but I don’t intend this to become a pro/con religious debate. I’m quite set and comfortable in my atheism. In the past 30 years or so, I went from a non-practicing Catholic, to agnostic, to a live-and-let-live soft atheist. As I’m getting older, though, I’ve noticed my feelings about atheism becoming more and more… “evangelistic”, for want of a better term. I see many bad (evil, if you will) things happening, or that have happened, because of, in the name of, or rationalized by religion and/or some god, and am starting to feel very strongly that the world would be a much better place if all this superstitious thought would just completely disappear. Sure, “evil” will still exist, but I feel that it’d have a much harder time existing without having religion there as a rationalization. Sure, religion has some good points, does some good things, but I’ve yet to see any that truly needed god as a prerequisite, except in the devotee’s own mind.

This is my problem: I read the above paragraph, and I cringe because it sounds like witnessing. I sound like some religious intolerant that believes his truth is the only truth and must prevail. And, worse of all, I’m becoming less and less bothered by my own exhibitions of these qualities that I dislike so much. The truth and a better world are a noble cause, so what I alienate and offend a few people getting there. I’m becoming anti-theist. Any one else out there been in the same boat? How do you/I resolve this internal dissonance?

You do what all smart people (should) do: believe whatever you like, and keep your opinions to yourself. Before you get offended at this, I am also an atheist, but I never, ever discuss it with anyone. I realize that nobody cares what I think about it. My opinion won’t change anybody’s mind, and it will only make people dislike me. I don’t want that to happen. So I keep my mouth shut. That’s the best advice I can give you. Hate what’s going on, be morally outraged about it, but shut up about it, because there is absolutely nothing you can do.

I guess you could go ahead and preach atheism to everyone you meet, but you could never, ever complain about proselyting JWs or other missionaries or witnessing evangelicals again. Because now you are just like them, only on the other side of the chess board. You could get together and discuss tactics and trade war stories, like soldiers on leave or something… :slight_smile:

The problem with evangelists is they shove their opinion into every situation possible, whether it’s wanted or not. Those who can keep their mouths shut, and live and let live, and only offer their religious views when appropriate, are just fine.