[QUOTE=Malacandra]
Mf. So is this where I get special pleading on behalf of widows and abandoned women, such that I can either be unbearably hard-hearted if I don’t allow it (in which case my argument can be safely ignored, as that of a cruel excuse for a human being) or told that the moral case can’t be that strong if I’m willing to set it aside based on a woman’s straitened circumstances? I’m sorry, I have a marked aversion to being asked if I’ve stopped beating my wife :dubious:
I’m not the pleading type…in fact I’m a selfish bastard; so don’t worry about me tugging any heart strings. I would rather your missus decides for herself what to do about her pregnancy, before it becomes a matter of the state AND me; because being a bastard, my needs come first and you don’t want me judging you and yours. Trust me.
Since I’m aware of my failing, I prefer not to interfer in your life unless I have to and i will do all I can to keep the state from doing so as well. If that means she choses abortion, fine, as long as the state doesn’t force or forbid; I got no beef. (Now understand, I don’t believe a 8 week old fetus’ rights trump the mothers, or your right not pay for your moment of pleasure, trumps the states right, not the have to pay for your moment of pleasure.) So If that means she keeps it and YOU have pay for it; that’s fine by me too. Keep me out of it.
And when did you first get your life insurance policy? Before you first got laid, when you first got married? I know I didn’t, because we were young and strong and unstoppable, with plenty of dough. Hell we didn’t even have health insurance back then. Don’t get me wrong, I think you’re right, but being right and ignoring the way the world works will lead to disaster. If some guy proposed creating law based on the ability and requirement for young people to willinglypurchase insurance, I would think him mad; because we know that young people on average don’t do such things; even if it’s available.
There’s a reason why the state demands you have car insurance, not to cover YOUR ass or to protect the innocent, but to cover state’s ass and the insurance companies ass; having millions of uninsured motorists slamming into each other would bankrupt them. They know that the majority won’t do it, unless they make them; so they do; if we could be trusted to do the practical, smart thing, they wouldn’t have to force us to have auto insurance. Why in God 's name, should we trust two people in heat, to plan for the possibility of one of them having a different idea of what reproductive responsibility means? Especially after the fact? Yet everyday people do just that, they take birth control, they refrain, they get married, they keep the child, give it up for adoption and sometimes they abort.
You see, I’m not shutting my eyes to other options, I simple refuse to shut my eyes to the realization of what leaving abortion to the states to decide will do the country…we’ve been here before. You can’t have half the country with liberal abortion rights and the other half with restrictive, no more than we could have half slave and half free. Like slavery, this is simply too big.
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Now I’m all in favour of a social climate that strongly encourages men to face up to their reproductive responsibilities. Does abortion on (the woman’s) demand encourage this? Or does it encourage lovers to lie, on the basis that she can always get an abortion if she gets pregnant? Does abortion, in fact, encourage a social climate in which abortion is increasingly a necessity? Is it self-perpetuating?[/qoute]
Lovers don’t need much encouragement to lie, hell I’ve been known to softly whisper a promise or two in the dark. In my youth, before abortion was as accessible as it is now, when a guy got a girl in trouble, he ended up in the armed forces or she disappeared to some far away relative. Sometimes they got married, sometimes they didn’t. Reproductive responsibilty for a man was pretty much FINANCIAL, sending some money, which slowly dried up; leaving the mother to rely on the kindness of her parents or the state, because they were lied to…a liar is a liar, regardless of the ability to abort or not.
As far as social climate, I don’t believe the majority of Americans think abortion is a good thing, but we believe it’s a neccessary OPTION to have, and it’s madness to allow such a powerful option to be unequally applied throughout the country. Further where does it end? Is birth control to be the next indicator of social ill? Are we to find ourselves asking if promiscuity is created because of the ability to have sex without falling pregnant, therefor we should restrict birth control in order to reduce the social climate that allows people to have sex whenever and with whomever they wish? Are lovers who promise to be faithful more prone to lie, because they know they won’t have a child to tie them down and can bang as many people as they wish?
Restricting abortion won’t fix whatever you believe is wrong with society, that makes abortion a neccessity…solve that problem in society and the need for “frivolous” abortions will be reduced.
Apologies for the long post.