We’ve been on one Disney Cruise and are about to go on another one in three weeks…
Things you should know:
Booking early can save you lots.
Booking early also gives you first crack at early dinner seating. Late dinner seating means that you won’t eat until 8:30 or something at night - which people with young kids don’t like. At this point, with a December cruise, you’ll get late seating (you can ask to be switched to early when you board).
Disney activities for the under three and not potty trained set are limited - we elected to wait until our youngest was potty trained. The sweet spot for a Disney cruise is kids ages 4 -12 - older teens in particular can find it “hokey.” From aged 3 (AND potty trained) to eighteen, there are FREE supervised activites for the kids that start by 8 am and go until midnight. So you can drop your kids off, go sit in a grown up hottub (or go back to your room for sex), and pick them up in an hour or two.
Disney does a very good job of keeping kids areas and adult areas seperate. There are a TON of kids on the ship - but you don’t see them at the adult pool, adult restaurant, spa, adult beach on their island, or in the nightclubs (after 9).
While the cruise price is “all inclusive” - you will have a bill when you get off. You need to tip your servers and stateroom hosts (they basically work for board and tips - so tips are pretty much all the cash they make), any alcohol you drink, souvieniers, excursions, spa trips, bingo, etc.
Disney does not have a casino on board.
Disney sails 3 and 4 day cruises and 7 day cruises.
Do a web search for Disney Cruise Line - there are a couple of pretty darn good fan sites that have links to the menus, copies of the cruise schedules (i.e. when they are having the Shuffleboard tournament), and chat boards.