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You know what’s funny? How many Navy guys own AMAZING suits. Know why? Because they have port calls in Asia.
Seriously. When my dad went to Hong Kong on a business trip, he spent something like $600 on a suit that was made by an honest to goodness tailor from scratch to fit him. Took two days. He’d spend that much easily on a nice suit here that had to be altered. I have never seen the man look so good as when he was wearing his Hong Kong suit. (He has since lost too much weight for it to fit him, and retired so he no longer wears suits except to funerals.) What that means is - what counts the most is fit. That is true no matter your size, your gender, your age, or your status.
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You know, I’ve heard the same thing about tailored clothing in Asia. A friend of mine went to China and came back with ridiculously well-made, specially-tailored, silk dresses and shirts and such that she paid almost nothing for, in terms of comparative pricing to the US.
That aside, I gotta say. I’ve had my share of nice clothing and crappy clothing in my life, and I’ve also seen women stuff themselves into unflattering $800 skirts. Just because it’s “designer” does not mean that it’s going to look good on you. Haven’t you ever seen the Oscars? All of those dresses cost an arm and a leg and fully half of them make the actress look stumpy or whatever.
Meanwhile, I look down on people who need to spend this amount of money on clothing. In my mind, it’s all laziness and misplaced sense of what “style” really is. I have friends who work 80 hours a week at less than minimum wage and look fantastic every day because they go to thrift stores and buy clothes for $5 that ms. richie on park avenue bought on a whim and gave away two months later because it ran “out of season”. “Seasonal” clothing is the only way that fashion designers can get away with charging an arm and a leg for “new” styles, to convince people that it’s cutting-edge and new and unique and that, in order to be fashionable, you have to wear something “new” and “unique” and “in season”. Bullshit! Fashion and looking good are about making good choices for you and your body and your skin tone, not spending money and buying something new and expensive each “season” in the “new” cut and the “new” style and the “new” color. I’ve gotten plenty of compliments on no-name clothing I picked up for pennies at thrift stores. I worked in corporate offices in NYC in almost EXCLUSIVELY SECOND-HAND clothing, many no-name labels, and intermixed with cheap department store crap, and I was always complimented on how well I dressed. Anyone who thinks that throwing hundreds of thousands of dollars at their wardrobe means that it’s going to build itself is sadly mistaken. A fool and her money, yadda yadda.
And, you know what, it IS similar to picking out a picasso. Anyone with a million bucks to throw away can tack up a random master painting onto any wall anywhere and it’ll look great. That being said, if you spend a little time and learn a little bit about art, you can pick up a $200 piece of art at an independent art fair that will look AMAZING in your house. It’s the same thing with clothing. You can look fine by throwing money around at designer clothing, or you can spend effort picking out nice pieces that fit you well and achieve the same effect for much, much less without giving into the fashion scam. It’s up to you.