I’m frustrated by my wife and daughter reading in essentially what I call the dark. I was taught years ago that a sure way to compromise your eyesight was by reading without adequate light. They claim that I’m full of it.
Reading in low light levels doesn’t harm your eyes at all. It DOES make it more difficult to read the text, though, since the part of the retina where vision is sharpest isn’t well-adapted to low light levels.
Around the age of forty or so it is common for the eyes to start to loose the ability to capture light, this can affect some people mor than others. It is quite possible that your wife and daughter have all the light that they need, but you are the one that needs more light.